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PoindexterOglethorpe

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34. I will hope for the best for your brother.
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 08:59 PM
Oct 2021

My own 78 year old older brother has been in an ongoing health crisis for nearly two months now. In and out of hospitals. A week ago today he was supposed to have surgery, but it was cancelled when he came down with a (to quote my sister-in-law) "raging infection". He's back home now, getting intravenous antibiotics.

In his case his mental state is normal, and he's in very good spirits. Still, he's not young, and the rest of us in the family are very concerned. Scans have shown two masses on one kidney, and a different kind of mass on the nearby adrenal gland. The doctors aren't very sure what's going on, but they've told him they are very concerned it might be cancer.

I think one lesson to be learned if only from your brother and mine, that there's a lot that's still unknown out there.

I'm one of six kids, all senior citizens now. My older sister died in 2017, and a younger brother last December. It's weird, because there were so many of us and for so long.





My brother is in ICU [View all] Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 OP
... alwaysinasnit Oct 2021 #1
praying for good news bluestarone Oct 2021 #2
Is he from VA as well? He has my very best wishes and you are all in my thoughts. hlthe2b Oct 2021 #3
He's in California Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #5
I'm glad he's at a good hospital. LisaM Oct 2021 #6
Yes. Ditto on Stanford. He should be in good hands. hlthe2b Oct 2021 #9
If Stanford can't fix him CountAllVotes Oct 2021 #16
Oh, Jilly. sheshe2 Oct 2021 #4
(((((((((((((Jilly))))))))))))) sending vibes for healing and strength and endurance for niyad Oct 2021 #7
Healing vibes on the way! 💗💗💗 SheltieLover Oct 2021 #8
Healing vibes sent......nt Heartstrings Oct 2021 #10
Oh Damn Yonnie3 Oct 2021 #11
My mom had the same symptoms BittyJenkins Oct 2021 #12
Having a dr. in the family Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #13
My heart I_UndergroundPanther Oct 2021 #29
I am so sorry to hear this Ruby the Liberal Oct 2021 #14
Speedy recovery for your brother MaryMagdaline Oct 2021 #15
Wishing the best for him, his SO & your whole family irisblue Oct 2021 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author irisblue Oct 2021 #18
Visualizing rapid and complete recovery for your beloved brother n/t KatK Oct 2021 #19
Did they check for tick borne illness or weird parasites? Greybnk48 Oct 2021 #20
+1 Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2021 #44
My first thought. uberblonde Oct 2021 #49
All the best, and good thoughts, Jilly Hekate Oct 2021 #21
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts. momta Oct 2021 #22
Hope he gets well soon malaise Oct 2021 #23
Good thoughts to you. sinkingfeeling Oct 2021 #24
Healing thoughts for your brother. May The Universe guide the doctors in finding the problem and LoisB Oct 2021 #25
What you describe sunds very similar to what someone I know experienced ... Percy Oct 2021 #26
Best vibes your way...n/t bluecollar2 Oct 2021 #27
Sending prayers for your brother. gademocrat7 Oct 2021 #28
Sending good vibes your way. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 #30
May your brother get diagnosed I_UndergroundPanther Oct 2021 #31
Prayers for you and family and for the drs thinkingagain Oct 2021 #32
Best wishes oldtime dfl_er Oct 2021 #33
I will hope for the best for your brother. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2021 #34
good luck to all of you Hamlette Oct 2021 #35
Thinking about you all. marble falls Oct 2021 #36
Best wishes for all and excellent care & steady appalachiablue Oct 2021 #37
Hoping for the very best outcome, Jilly. femmedem Oct 2021 #38
Sending you the best thoughts I can muster ❤️ MLAA Oct 2021 #39
Your brother will be in my prayers LetMyPeopleVote Oct 2021 #40
Sending healing vibes MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #41
Sending good wishes KT2000 Oct 2021 #42
You bet, Jilly_in_VA! calimary Oct 2021 #43
Wishing him the best. Sending good vibes. Mad_Dem_X Oct 2021 #45
Best wishes to him! n/t PoliticAverse Oct 2021 #46
Big DU virtual hugs and love out to you and your bro, Jilly. KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2021 #47
Oh no! Hugs and prayers for your brother... LeftInTX Oct 2021 #48
My he make it through in good condition. )))healing vibes((( electric_blue68 Nov 2021 #50
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