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calimary

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16. Welcome to DU, abhishekbt!
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 12:56 PM
Oct 2013

Glad you're here. We're all touched. This photos kind of allow the viewer to sit and join in and help keep the vigil, don't they?

Sobering. Really brings it home. One dreads that empty-bed photo. Reminds me of the call I got telling me my mom had finally succumbed (to all kinds of nasty shit that sickened her. Ironically, cancer was about the only thing she didn't have). Walking down the hall on her floor of the hospital, you'd pass by door after door after door, all of them open at least partially, where you can always kinda peek inside as you pass and see there's somebody in there, and maybe a nurse or a visitor or somebody, even silhouettes of somebody that are visible when the curtains are drawn in front of them. That particular night, I noticed that, unlike all the others, and after countless hospitalizations she'd had in the last two or three years of her life, the door to her room was now closed. For the first time ever. Just that one little detail can be rather devastating. Even when you're kinda expecting it.

It's a great series, the last three are not particularly awful. nt. NYC_SKP Oct 2013 #1
Very moving. hrmjustin Oct 2013 #2
Wow KC Oct 2013 #3
So much love...so much. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2013 #4
Beautiful. Moving. Thank you. ancianita Oct 2013 #5
Touched abhishekbt Oct 2013 #6
+1 nt brer cat Oct 2013 #12
Welcome to DU, abhishekbt! calimary Oct 2013 #16
That's incredibly moving. NealK Oct 2013 #7
I have no words Lunabelle Oct 2013 #8
only tears hourglass1 Oct 2013 #9
Welcome to DU, hourglass1! calimary Oct 2013 #17
Very emotional photos! Callalily Oct 2013 #10
I'm sitting in the bathroom... a la izquierda Oct 2013 #11
Wow, that was so real tavalon Oct 2013 #13
My sister did similar when our mom was dying of brain cancer in the 80's ... Myrina Oct 2013 #14
It took several tries to have the courage to look Mira Oct 2013 #15
Now that's a 'CIGAR'; greiner3 Oct 2013 #18
Sorry, but have you ever smoked a 'cigar' placed under your tongue? Dont_Bogart_the_Pretzel Oct 2013 #29
Am I the only one who is totally afraid of cancer? CoffeeCat Oct 2013 #19
I think that we all fear cancer. Curmudgeoness Oct 2013 #21
no. you're not the only one. BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2013 #22
I was thinking that some people here were too sentimental Curmudgeoness Oct 2013 #20
I imagined if this had happened to my wife... awoke_in_2003 Oct 2013 #23
This January 10th will be..... JimboBillyBubbaBob Oct 2013 #24
So very sad. Sorry for your loss. cry baby Oct 2013 #25
... Skittles Oct 2013 #26
I have mixed feelings about this postatomic Oct 2013 #27
Mixed feelings are appropriate and a dissenting view is acceptable. I think you may ... marble falls Oct 2013 #28
Ive seen this before and I always cry. I'm living it right now and it reminds me of my ultimate fate Evoman Oct 2013 #30
I noted in an earlier post the circumstance our family found itself in... JimboBillyBubbaBob Oct 2013 #32
And pricks like dick cheney mikeysnot Oct 2013 #31
Been there, done that, it sucked. Throckmorton Oct 2013 #33
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