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In reply to the discussion: It's Father's Day. My father is dead and I don't miss him at all. [View all]irisblue
(32,928 posts)5. I feel the same. My mothers ex biologic partner was not a good man. He left pain & chaos behind
He left in 1980, in 2011 his brother tracked me down as next of kin ( my mother had divorced him in 81) to let me know about his death. Because of the social security laws, his passing bumped my mothers payments up. That was the best thing he'd done for my family in 30 years.
Not everyone has the family we should.
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It's Father's Day. My father is dead and I don't miss him at all. [View all]
no_hypocrisy
Jun 2022
OP
My mother was hateful to me in a similar way. I am quite sure it was not a misguided love.
Scrivener7
Jun 2022
#2
This is insensitive. No-hypocrisy has described an abusive situation, one which was surely
Scrivener7
Jun 2022
#20
This is not a courtroom. You are not a judge or jury. No one has asked you to make a judgement.
Scrivener7
Jun 2022
#32
I know what you mean. At one time, my father decided that saying "I love you" would somehow ...
eppur_se_muova
Jun 2022
#24
I feel the same. My mothers ex biologic partner was not a good man. He left pain & chaos behind
irisblue
Jun 2022
#5
Good for you. You don't know owe cruelty anything. Especially cruelty against a child.
MLAA
Jun 2022
#19
I can sympathize. My dad was not as cruel as all that, but he just didn't like people at all ...
eppur_se_muova
Jun 2022
#23