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Number23

(24,544 posts)
30. Girl, I got CHILLS reading this
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 07:38 PM
Nov 2013
As for the anecdotes of a well meaning non minority liberal...I tend to find them almost as dangerous as true racists. Because they get to glide in a parallel world of cluelessness.


Yes, yes!!!!!

Our children die daily in the real world...as they ponder and pontificate on whether one country is perceived as less racist than another.

Our children die as large numbers of these folks actually PINE away for the glory days of the 1950s when the hard won rights that we've only recently gotten and are still fighting for would be completely obliterated. And these same folks wonder why so many people of color don't really see all that much difference between white liberals and white conservatives and why we don't clamor for the heads of the "1%" as much as they do. From where I sit, it's not just the 1% that could give less than a shit about me and my family.

There is no checklist to a life. When I kiss my 8 year old and tuck him in at night or hold him close, the fear I feel inside is real. Quantify that. Where does my anecdote go?

Thank you.

DU is somehow finding ways to be even more stupidly clueless about issues of race than they have in the past. And considering the Banner of Racial Cluelessness that blankets this site at even the best of times, that is truly saying something.

Between this foolishness, the revolting co-opting of all things MLK, in the past week I had an absolutely absurd conversation with a white poster who saw absolutely nothing untoward about TELLING me that it's perfectly acceptable for white people to use the N word -- even at black people -- if they grew up in a predominantly black environment. Even after telling her that I was black and grew up in a predominantly black environment myself, this person still insisted that I was wrong. There simply are no words to calmly discuss things with people like this and I don't have the patience to find them even if they did exist.
I am not alerting on this, even though it's a call-out. Laelth Nov 2013 #1
It's completely false BainsBane Nov 2013 #3
I think you might benefit from learning something about foreign countries. Laelth Nov 2013 #7
But what is your experience in America? JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #8
Here, if you're interested. Laelth Nov 2013 #9
Thank you JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #15
You make a lot of assumptions BainsBane Nov 2013 #10
This - very well done BB JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #16
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2013 #33
Yeah, so is mine heaven05 Jan 2014 #38
How very arrogant?? onpatrol98 Nov 2013 #25
That's it onpatrol98 JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #27
Girl, I got CHILLS reading this Number23 Nov 2013 #30
I bookmarked this thread for this reply. LiberalAndProud Dec 2013 #37
That's a first. BainsBane Nov 2013 #2
Least racist you say? brush Nov 2013 #4
Here's what I can say that might be useful. Laelth Nov 2013 #5
What other countries? JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #6
The Voting Rights Act was enacted because the Reconstruction Amendments were ignored BainsBane Nov 2013 #11
Those laws gollygee Nov 2013 #13
Is that person a racial minority? Number23 Nov 2013 #12
He/She is a criminal JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #17
My heart bleeds, literally bleeds, for his/her clients Number23 Nov 2013 #18
I was sick yesterday or I might have seen that in the thread gollygee Nov 2013 #14
We're surprisingly better than much of Europe LittleBlue Nov 2013 #19
Fair point JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #20
Europe really is struggling with this and has been for centuries Number23 Nov 2013 #21
I agree JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #22
Oh girl, it's been way longer than August. A loud, ignorant and embarrasingly clueless group have Number23 Nov 2013 #23
People might be outspoken and say really mean nasty things gollygee Nov 2013 #24
You nailed it! JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #26
I take a deep breath ..., 1StrongBlackMan Nov 2013 #28
This ^^^^ M0rpheus Nov 2013 #29
Hell yeah Number23 Nov 2013 #31
Probably because I'm "NQW!" MADem Nov 2013 #34
True that ... 1StrongBlackMan Nov 2013 #32
Not anywhere close TJ-Tretman Dec 2013 #35
I would suggest ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2013 #36
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