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2016 Postmortem

brush

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11. Guy was probably closeted.

Reply to TlalocW (Reply #9)

Fri Oct 14, 2016, 02:33 PM

Oct 2016

I had a guy in a golf group once who whenever I road in the cart with him would always find a way to squeeze my thigh as a form of praise for a good shot.

I would pull his hand off me and finally made sure not to ride with him again.

I didn't expose him to the others, though I thought about it. Decided not to in case I read the situation wrong but I do know straight guys usually just touch each other in a handshake, or fist bump or shoulder hug and handshake after not seeing each other for a long time.

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As my wife and I were watching some of both MSNBC and CNN last night, something hit me. [View all] tonyt53 Oct 2016 OP

20 sec mark JHB Oct 2016 #1

i had forgot about her reaction. lord have mercy n/t. okieinpain Oct 2016 #10

I think... Mike Nelson Oct 2016 #2

You know, I worked for 40+ years and NEVER had anyone do that to me. napi21 Oct 2016 #3

Remember Bush and the President of Germany? katmondoo Oct 2016 #4

They do it to show dominance, your discomfort is justified Maru Kitteh Oct 2016 #5

Yeah I had a manager that used to do that. MissB Oct 2016 #6

Your post is what keeps me coming back to DU. displacedtexan Oct 2016 #7

There was a guy who used to work in our office who did this all the time Dem2 Oct 2016 #8

I've had it done to me by a male manager TlalocW Oct 2016 #9

Guy was probably closeted. brush Oct 2016 #11

No, I don't think he was closeted. Just used physical intimidation on both sexes TlalocW Oct 2016 #14

I hate having anyone get physically close to me csziggy Oct 2016 #12

In our company's sexual harassment training this is specifically mentioned.... CajunBlazer Oct 2016 #13