Reply #52: For About Five Years Between The Time [View All]

[mermaid]

the abuse stopped, and before he married her (my sister in law). That is when he was cool.

He was very popular in school...and this paved the way for me, making my life in high school a bit easier than it otherwise would have been.

You also need to know that, for ten years, I repressed memory of the abuse he gave to me. It came out in pschotherapy in my mid-20's, and that was when I confronted him with it...after it had come out in my psychotherapy. And he owned up to it at that point.

But it explained a hell of a lot, when it did come out. It explained why I was largely revolted by the idea of sexual relations...with ANYONE. I still have that to this day. There have been a total of three "willing" sexual encounters in my entire life. And since, in all three cases, I was drunk off my ass, I wonder how willing even those were!