Reply #5: I'm sorry to hear this. [View All]

[johnnie]

I don't really have any sure fire ways to make it all go away because it won't for a while.
I have lost someone I loved before, but I have never been married. When she first left the house I was so depressed that I thought I wouldn't make it. I started concentrating on the things that I found were better in my life without her there. Just stupid things like how I had the whole bed instead of only one small side. Other things such as being able to kick my shoes off after work and not have to pick them up until I was ready and not when she complained. Just things like that.
I know it feels like you are the only one to ever go through this and no one understands, but many of us do and many of us have made it though those shitty times.
Good luck to you and hang in there, things will get better.