Reply #41: ok, here's what you do.... [View All]

[Wetzelbill]

Find out what apartment he lives in. Walk up there one night. Say, "hey, I'm going to go out with a couple friends tomorrow, you should come with us." After a few shots and drinks in the club/bar and a little flirting back and forth and the seduction is just going to happen. At some point during the night, before you go home, just say that you aren't looking for/don't have time for a relationship etc. Let him know you just want to go out, have fun and have a good time.

Trust me, this guy has been going nuts thinking about getting you in bed all week. He probably is wondering right now, if he should try to find out your apartment number etc. Surprise him. Be assertive and aggressive. Make your move. Guys often are just dying, wishing we didn't often have to do all the work. We so wish women would be more assertive and go for us. I say you should do it. Or the other option is to invite him to a party at your place. That would work too.