Reply #46: One day, some fantastic guy will flirt with you and let you know that [View All]

[1monster]

he's really interested. It might end up being a short and sweet fling (you are probably going to be cautious and wary; he will probably very sought after, too, by other women), but you will know that you are attractive to other really cool men.

And you will learn that you CAN breathe without the lost love and life is good again. And you will be happy with yourself by yourself.

Then one day, when you least expect it, you will find another love. You won't give yourself heart, mind, body, and soul to him. Instead, you will share your heart, mind, body, and soul with him, and he will do the same for you. And it will be a better relationship than the one that has been broken off.

What you will learn from this experience is to love yourself enough to never let any man treat you with less than complete respect and who will appreciate you for who you are.

And that is a lesson well worth what you are going through now...