Reply #13: None of my business ... [View All]

[RoyGBiv]

Just a bystander here, but is someone who was part of the "gang that fucked you over" really a person you'd consider to have business ethics that are "tops"? I mean, if he'd do that, what's to say he'd not screw up the job just to spite you?

Anyway, whatever your motives, conscious or subconscious, for initially contacting him, there's something to be said for the cleansing one gets from being able to face off against one who has tormented you. Perhaps it could be said you "stooped" to his level, but these pyschological battles we face day to day occasionally require that, once. I have lingering issues with a girlfriend from 20+ years ago, in fact, and it would do my soul good just once to make her hear what my mind has been screaming at me on and off for those 20 years.

I wouldn't do it again, however. Once is cleansing. Twice is something else.