Reply #38: There are no physical dealbreakers [View All]

[av8rdave]

By the time I ever knew I was interested in somebody, it was almost everything it was almost everything BUT the physical that mattered. That by no means means "no standards." I just means the standards apply to things other than physical appearance.

Think about it: Anyone you truly feel you love or have loved, would that love be any different if they looked different than they do/did? If so, then maybe it really wasn't love.

Appearance can have a bearing on the strict physical attration aspect - but I believe that is there only to get you to notice someone in the first place. It is certainly possible to "notice" someone and feel attracted to someone for reasons other than physical appearance.

Just my $.02