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[idgiehkt]

are 12 step stuff that might gross you out, depending on your spiritual beliefs, but they are ones that have helped me lately; I'll throw them out and you can look over them if it's not your thing. That person has a higher power/god/whatever looking out for them and you are not it. The universe will provide for them. There maybe something better on the horizon for them but in order to get there they have to be taken out of this situation first. The closest I've ever come to having a guru is listening to this man named Bob E. who is one of the wisest people I've ever heard speak, and he says "my faith in God is so strong I know that if this door closes the next one is made of gold." I'm not religious, but I've learned more often than not that that is true. There may be forces at work working for the good of this person that you cannot see.