Reply #39: I think that is part of it [View All]

[NewJeffCT]

Even though we were divorced, she probably felt I was kind of the Plan B guy for a while - i.e., somebody she could go back to if needed.

It was kind of odd, though. I could only imagine if I had ever tried to forbid her from talking to an old boyfriend - she would have ripped my head off, "How dare you forbid me from talking to somebody, I'll talk to whoever I damn well please!" Not that I even thought of doing that...

It was kind of odd, though. Until she met that guy, she had always told me about new guys she was dating and would call me to tell me what was going on in her life. Then, I stopped hearing from her for a while until I got that odd phone call.