Reply #89: That's so silly - [View All]

[bitchkitty]

what if the man isn't married? You then know him less?

All part of the myth and fairy tale of marriage in America. The White Knight Syndrome. Marriage as rescue from a cold cruel world. Oh, thank you for rescuing me sire! I will cook your food, clean your house, wait by the fire for you to come home! I will forsake all my interests and your aspirations shall become mine! Give me a break.

The best marriages, the ones that work, involve 2 people with similar interests who are not joined at the hip.

I am so impressed with this woman.