Reply #2: Counseling sometimes really pisses me off. [View All]

[zingaro]

My dh cheated on me a year ago. He's a self-absorbed man who had little use for counseling and we got nowhere, but this very question did come up in one of our precious few sessions.

Here's the thing - you're asking for something you need to feel reassured. If that means he has to sit down and write out reasons he loves you or something like that, then so be it. The challenge for you is to find something that HE can do for YOU, right?

Trust me that the hooking up won't work and will make you feel worse, but you aleady know that. If you want a btdt place to vent, feel free to PM me. I'm still trying to deal with the fallout and it's just not easy, even as time passes.

:hug: to you.