How does an atheist cope with death of a loved one? [View All]

[wryter2000]

I consider myself an agnostic. My husband is more of an atheist. I've always avoided thinking about what happens after death because I believe nothing happens after death, but that answer doesn't make me particularly happy.

My husband's dying now, and he isn't suffering, so I don't have to worry about that. I'm finding that I'm coping very well with the thought of losing him. But I can't get past the idea that he'll cease to exist. He's not rational now, and he can't talk so that I can understand him, anyway. So, there's no way he can reassure me that he's accepting what's happening to him.

Has anyone dealt with a death this close to them without the comfort of a hereafter? Can you share any advice on how to cope with the end of someone you love?

TIA