Reply #36: I initially went to University of La Verne in Ontario, Ca. [View All]

[Maat]

Then, I finished up at a tiny school run by a retired judge (who we all respect) called California Southern. Law school is the greatest thing one can for oneself (or one of the greatest). It opens up so much for further exploration. I'm a middle-aged, married mom, and I don't really thing that I want to practice law. My daughter goes to a hybrid charter school program, in which she attends school a few days per week, and we work on a packet (homeschool) the rest of the week. It's been a lifesaver for us (she doesn't do well in the conventional classroom). So, I spend time teaching. Getting the real estate license, and pursuing a broker's license has been the ticket for me (they waive many of the typical requirements with a law degree; but, law school is great, isn't it?

For 'mixed' couples (HeeHee - one an atheist, one not, or whatever), I really recommend the Unitarian-Universalist church, particularly when the couple has/adopts kids. Something you might think about for the future. There's no mention of a deity in the service, and we all go do our own thing, otherwise (in groups, etc.). The kids grow up willing to explore all philosophies, and yet dedicated to peace and community service.

To me, conflict resolution, mediation, assertive communication, and negotiation are really related. They are about achieving a deal that everyone likes.

Wow, I'm proud of you for participating in Moot Court; it never was my thing. I really hope you tell me about your graduation, and passing the bar one day!

I really celebrate 'faith' privately, or with a small circle of friends, and it is a factor in my decision-making only in so far as it shapes my everyday belief system; but, I'm so 'live and let live' that my 'faith' has really only encouraged me to be less judgmental, and less overly emotional (due to having to be right or excessive judgmentalness).

I believe we agree that government and policymaking should occur completely without reference to religion; but, that's what Americans United for Separation of Church and State is all about. Rev. Barry Lynn is both a lawyer and an ordained minister. He lays out how believers and nonbelievers can work together to effect a secular government in his book, "Piety and Politics." I really recommend it; but, you're in law school, and probably don't have a life right now (HeeHee). But you will again soon!

Take care! You will NEVER regret having taken the time to get through law school - no matter what.