Reply #515: Intolerance isn't defined based on intent... [View All]

[bliss_eternal]

...that is your perception of the definition, but not how it's defined.

http://www.answers.com/topic/bigotry

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homophobia

It's quite possible for people to be unintentionally bigoted, homophobic, intolerant, sexist and racist. Not all bigoted intend to be that way. Various forms of intolerance are based in what people don't know, and frequently what they refuse to open themselves up to about others thoughts, feelings, ideas, experiences, histories, etc.

Members attempting to point out to other members that their words are hurtful, aren't saying,"...you meant to hurt me." It's saying,"...clearly you don't understand, but I find this hurtful and wanted to let you know how and why."

It's a choice. To see corrections as accusations or as opportunities to learn about another member, and be more senstive to them in the future.