Reply #82: I wish what you wrote was true [View All]

[undergroundpanther]

But it isn't simply "unpleasant people" Causing these problems.
PLEASE learn from these links.
http://www.cix.co.uk/~klockstone/spath.htm
http://www.hare.org/links/saturday.html
http://porkupineblog.blogspot.com/2006/09/profile-of-psychopath.html
http://eldib.wordpress.com/2008/01/26/twilight-of-the-psychopaths/

About Malignant Optimism &just world theory and how these beliefs undermine justice.
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art22358.asp
http://www.scu.edu/ethics/publications/iie/v3n2/justworld.html
http://www.ibiblio.org/rcip/invuln.html


Guess what destroys malignant optimism and beliefs in a just world?
And removes ones capacity for feeling capable? Traumatization ,torture and abuse by psychopaths narcissists and authoritarian bullies.Trauma undermines the belief system that gives meaning to human. experience
http://www.menningerclinic.com/resources/coping_trauma05.htm
http://www.pinn.net/~sunshine/book-sum/femicide.html

It is very tempting to take the side of the perpetrator. All the perpetrator asks is that the bystander do nothing. He appeals to the universal desire to see, hear, and speak no evil. The victim, on the contrary, asks the bystander to share the burden of pain. The victim demands action, engagement, and remembering.

In other words EMPATHY! And awareness about toxic people,what they cause and how to protect yourself and others from toxic people who traumatize others.
http://www.pearsonassessments.com/resources/f43cs.htm
http://www.homestudycredit.com/courses/contentPT/trkPT02lo.html
http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=doc&id=10790