Reply #5: The people who REALLY need psychotherapy are the ABUSERS. [View All]

[Triana]

It is incumbent on the victim to STOP TAKING RESPONSIBILITY for the behavior and the consequences of the behavior of the abusers and to set some FIRM BOUNDARIES on what they will not tolerate going forward.

ABUSERS always blame the VICTIM for their own abusive behavior and for the consequences of it (and it doesn't help to have YOU blaming the victim for the abuser's behavior in addition to that).

The victim needs to stop accepting the blame - and the responsibility. They are NOT to blame for the abuser's behavior. They can only control THEIR OWN - and in the case of the spineless on Capitol Hill - they need to stop taking the blame and the responsibility for the Pigshit's destruction of the world economy and start laying down some boundaries going forward.

After all they DID WIN.