Reply #58: I get confused when the husband's resistant. [View All]

[noamnety]

I'm not sure what he's worried about, he went down and helped during Katrina, he donates to charities, it's not that he's selfish or lazy. He just doesn't involve himself in other people's business uninvited. Even when we were out walking the other day and I saw the parking lot of the funeral home had caught fire from a smoker dropping their butt in some mulch, he was not going to stop in and tell them Hey, you need to go dump some water one that. There were no flames, just a slow burn with lots of smoke, but it had crept across an area already a few square feet by the time we saw it. I did stop in and take care of it because it would be pretty bad if flames erupted and we could have prevented it.