Reply #114: I understand. [View All]

[Lars39]

Life and death decisions are hard to discuss. fwiw, my father felt compelled to corner every nun-nurse and doctor involved in my mom's care when she was delivering us. He simply told them that if there was a choice to be made as to who lived or died, it had better be the mother who lived. All turned out well, but I've often wondered what he would have done in his grief if they had made the wrong choice.