Holly Friedrichsen was hoping for a tear--or a smile, at least--when she held aloft her 5-month-old daughter to give her husband his first glimpse of their child.
Instead, what she got was what she and other wives call the Marine Look. "There's really no emotion to it."
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Many of these Marines are only now working through the deaths of friends whom they could not take time to truly mourn amid the demands of the fight. Some still crave the adrenaline charge of combat. And frequently, returning veterans feel unable to communicate what they endured in Iraq to those who were not there.
At the same time, their spouses and families have borne stresses of their own during a prolonged period apart. Wives have been living in a state of uncertainty and anxiety that they could lose their husbands at any moment. For those with children, spouses have spent many months as a single parent.
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