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Edited on Wed Jun-01-05 05:40 PM by Lisa
Personally I think your relatives are blowing things way out of proportion. From what you've explained about your approach to junk food, and food in general, you are being sane and healthy. Plus you're explaining things to your daughter and giving her a choice. You're not saying "never", just "not at certain times". In no way does this compare to what happened to one of my classmates, for instance, whose parents simply forbade her from going to birthday parties or even on the school camping trip "because she might be offered sinful foods like pop and chips" -- that was a control issue, not a dietary one, and the junk food avoidance was just an excuse to limit her exposure to other kids.
My own mom was probably stricter than most other parents I know, when it came to junk foods -- but like you, she didn't ban "yummy stuff" and would try to learn how to make it from scratch. In college, some of my friends came over for dinner at my place, and one of them commented after, "I didn't realize it was possible to make marshmallows at home." Mom was a Depression era baby and a public health nurse, and even today she doesn't think it's worthwhile to spend a lot of money on bad food that will make you unwell later on.
A couple of years ago I saw the documentary "The Cola Conquest", about how much money corporations like Coca-Cola and Pepsi are making off "sugar water" -- and I called her up and told her that she had been right all along. She'd been warning me about that since 1970!
Anyway, I like sweets and don't feel I was deprived as a kid, but thanks to my parents, I can walk past vending machines without feeding coins into them -- I have a soda once or twice a month, chocolate a couple of times a week, and I haven't eaten anything at a McDonald's/Burger King for more than a year. This has probably saved me a lot of money (a cola and a candy bar per day, at 7/11 or vending machine rates, takes more cash out of your wallet each week than a movie ticket or a CD). I'm not a fussy eater, but fast food and prepackaged convenience meals turn me off after awhile, so that was more incentive to learn how to cook things for myself -- this saves more money and obliges me to appreciate food when I see how much work goes into it.
p.s. speaking of junk food being a "treat" -- I suspect that in previous generations, the servings were much smaller than they are now. People weren't expecting to make a meal out of them, just have "a little something". A while ago Coke was selling commemorative replicas of the first bottles they made (first time I've bought a Coke in 5 years!). I came in to teach my Environmental Studies class holding an empty Big Gulp container I'd scavenged from the trash -- reached into it and pulled out the "traditional size" Coke -- the kids were shocked by how big the servings are now.
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