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Rocknrule (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-17-07 11:01 PM Original message |
Here’s your sign: Teen gets public punishment |
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Crunchy Frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-17-07 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
1. Gosh, I wonder where the kid learned how to be a bully? |
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habitual (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-17-07 11:23 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. i don't get it, where do you think she learned it? n/t |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-17-07 11:31 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Uh, because the Mom believes her daughter should show respect? |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 10:20 AM Response to Reply #5 |
37. Uh, no - because her mom doesn't understand the difference between discipline and bullying. |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 10:39 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. I don't agree with you. A child who doesn't know shame grows into a jackass like * |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 12:20 PM Response to Reply #38 |
42. Then you know very little about human development. As a social worker, I must point that out. |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 01:32 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Speaking as a Social Worker also |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 02:03 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. "Shame" is not the same as "remorse." |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 01:17 PM Response to Reply #45 |
80. That child was forced to show public remorse. We need a little more of that. |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 01:29 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. "Public remorse" does not require humilation, which is never an effective tool of correction. |
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jelly (312 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 06:42 PM Response to Reply #45 |
85. I think the mother did the right thing. |
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Crunchy Frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:40 PM Response to Reply #42 |
49. Thank you. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:54 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. Deleted message |
proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 11:20 PM Response to Reply #42 |
55. Great post! |
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xxqqqzme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:44 PM Response to Reply #38 |
50. You are right about one thing, |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:59 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. see post #36 about how the mom is going to organize HS rallies |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 12:25 AM Response to Reply #52 |
58. IMO the Mom is doing the right thing.... |
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leftynyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 05:22 AM Response to Reply #58 |
62. I'm in total agreement |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 10:30 AM Response to Reply #58 |
66. I could say everything you wrote if the mom had chosen to beat the girl to "teach" her - |
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Crunchy Frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 12:58 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. I've been amazed at some of the attitudes towards children |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 01:31 PM Response to Reply #69 |
82. Yeah, that stunned me too. |
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silverojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-22-07 04:23 AM Response to Reply #66 |
91. As a victim of bullying |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 01:16 PM Response to Reply #37 |
79. "Shame on you!" and "You ought to be ashamed of yourself!" were |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-17-07 11:35 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. My thought too |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:08 AM Response to Reply #1 |
24. Have to agree. Far better to have taught a lesson in empathy |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 10:43 AM Response to Reply #24 |
40. I don't think that works for kids, |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 03:44 PM Response to Reply #40 |
46. You know, it probably depends a great deal on the kid |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 01:38 AM Response to Reply #46 |
61. . |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:53 AM Response to Reply #1 |
30. Where? |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 11:40 PM Response to Reply #1 |
57. Ya think? |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 11:00 AM Response to Reply #1 |
67. What you're saying is obvious. The mother seems like a bully herself. |
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jelly (312 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 06:49 PM Response to Reply #67 |
86. How is it misguided to believe that children should feel ashamed of their bad behavior? |
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michael1951 (1 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 01:56 PM Response to Reply #1 |
70. Is that the same Ivory Spann who appears in 1997 news stories from Portland Oregon? |
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Trillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 08:16 PM Response to Reply #70 |
89. I'm glad somebody mentioned the lack of punishment |
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Dogmudgeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-17-07 11:25 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's a SIGN, all right |
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greyl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-17-07 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
4. "I got suspended from school and this street corner." ? nt |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-17-07 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
6. Why didn't Mom just execute the girl? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 12:26 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Well, I think she WAS trying to take responsibility for raising her kid |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 01:40 AM Response to Reply #6 |
16. Bullying is NOT a part of life |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 11:45 AM Response to Reply #16 |
41. When were you last in high school? |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:02 PM Response to Reply #41 |
48. Pecking order?! Yeah, that's a progressive ideal. |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 10:49 PM Response to Reply #48 |
54. It's real life, dude. Wake up and smell the brimstone. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 12:31 PM Response to Reply #54 |
68. And you were a hammer |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 02:34 PM Response to Reply #68 |
71. Quit whining. Nearly ALL of us were anvis. |
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silverojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-22-07 04:25 AM Response to Reply #54 |
92. In our high school, there were no hammers or anvils |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 09:31 PM Response to Reply #41 |
73. I'm not questioning your experience |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 12:59 AM Response to Reply #16 |
60. What ProudDad said... |
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Cronopio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 02:43 AM Response to Reply #6 |
20. "Bullying is part of life ..." |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 09:38 PM Response to Reply #20 |
74. If you continue to believe this |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 01:33 AM Response to Reply #20 |
77. Hell yeah |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 12:20 AM Response to Original message |
8. School bullying should not be tolerated |
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habitual (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 12:34 AM Response to Original message |
10. sometimes bullies meet someone who isn't afraid of them... |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 12:55 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. I would certainly recommend this! |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 02:15 AM Response to Reply #12 |
19. This is how I dealt with one of my bullies when I was 12... |
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fasttense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:47 AM Response to Reply #19 |
27. My 15 year old niece had something similar happen |
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Igel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 10:42 AM Response to Reply #19 |
39. I did something similar. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 02:31 AM Response to Reply #19 |
76. If you did that now you would be expelled |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 12:53 AM Response to Original message |
11. I may not agree with the mom, but how do you control a bully? |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:57 AM Response to Reply #11 |
22. Good post. |
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truebrit71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 12:43 PM Response to Reply #11 |
43. Simple, beat the sin out of them... |
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drm604 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 12:59 AM Response to Original message |
13. She was suspended from the street corner? |
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habitual (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 01:02 AM Response to Reply #13 |
14. yah, i admit, i don't get that either. n/t |
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Hyper_Eye (429 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 01:49 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. It is an error. |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
15. It might have been better |
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coffeenap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:11 AM Response to Reply #15 |
35. Yes, I see the "color balance". Maybe there is more to the |
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oldgrowth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 02:02 AM Response to Original message |
18. Need more school counselors and teachers who care and pay them!!! |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-22-07 05:03 AM Response to Reply #18 |
93. Or we need to rethink our agro-industrial education model |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:21 AM Response to Original message |
21. ... |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:23 AM Response to Original message |
23. Bullying should never be tolerated. |
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momster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:16 AM Response to Original message |
25. Bullying Girls |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:48 AM Response to Reply #25 |
28. They were jealous of your daughter...... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:55 AM Response to Reply #25 |
31. Excellent post |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 12:31 AM Response to Reply #25 |
59. Blame the victim.... |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 10:06 AM Response to Reply #59 |
64. When my son was repeatedly bullied on the bus in 7th grade by a couple of |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-22-07 08:02 AM Response to Reply #64 |
95. we have video cameras on our buses as well... |
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TheMadMonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
26. FFS People. Evolution gave us guilt, humiliation, pain... |
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fasttense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:05 AM Response to Reply #26 |
34. I know your heart is in the right place but your theories of educational psychology |
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Dervill Crow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 12:35 AM Response to Reply #26 |
75. This sounds straight from Dobson's "Dare to Discipline." eom |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 01:34 PM Response to Reply #26 |
83. Wow. That's staggeringly incorrect. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:53 AM Response to Original message |
29. I think this is probably okay, as long as the mother talked to the child |
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Mad_Dem_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:56 AM Response to Reply #29 |
32. I agree - Good for the mom |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:00 AM Response to Reply #32 |
33. Exactly |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
36. Something else about the mother in the article: |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
47. Meh. The gir's mom probably doesn't know what else to do. |
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superconnected (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:07 PM Response to Reply #47 |
53. Social distinction is cruel. Very cruel. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 11:39 PM Response to Original message |
56. So Mom taught her child not to bully by bullying her? |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-22-07 08:08 AM Response to Reply #56 |
96. in school or out of school suspension is a type of public humiliation |
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DemBones DemBones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 07:40 AM Response to Original message |
63. This reminds me of the old story about the |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
65. BTW, about shaming: it has its place. |
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SayWhatYo (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
72. I against all punishment of any form... |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 03:04 AM Response to Original message |
78. many cultures believe in the value of public shaming |
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Decruiter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 06:25 PM Response to Reply #78 |
84. For all the talking we Americans do, we don't say this enough! |
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twilliams82 (44 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 07:22 PM Response to Reply #84 |
88. Agreed |
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Decruiter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 10:15 PM Response to Reply #88 |
90. Thanks, t !!! And Welcome to DU!! |
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superconnected (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-21-07 07:17 PM Response to Reply #78 |
87. I've heard kids who shoot everyone at school are often |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-22-07 08:00 AM Response to Original message |
94. I remember the days when your parents would punish you at home for bad behavior at school |
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