and in the hands of kidnappers, rather then dead on the battlefield, or not knowing where he is. Thats what the military has put families through.
One mother I know of watched the fighting in Fallujah, and was so worried and concerned for her son, she called Iraq, got thru to the commandant, and demanded to know if her son was okay.
That night, the officer in charge of her sons unit humiliated her son in front of the unit because his mom called , worried about him. The son was harassed by the unit.
Another mother watched the army take her only son back to Iraq, a kid filled with shrapnel wounds from the first stint, and they forced him to sign the papers to return and threw him on the plane, telling him to "buck up" and be a man and get back to Iraq, despite his PTSD and wounds. They didnt even let his mother and father know when they took him back, and when she calls her son in Iraq now, all he is allowed to say is "Im where Im supposed to be."
The soldiers there, many of them, are caught in the hell of pressured force to stay there, and be sent back. They have no out.
The horror stories like this are why the military reserves and guard are doomed.
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