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blueclown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:07 PM
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Texas judge confirms video of him beating daughter, says 'I lost my temper'
Source: CNN

Dallas (CNN) -- A Texas judge faces a police investigation and judicial probe after a video showing him beating his then-16-year-old disabled daughter was posted on the Internet.

The graphic video drew international outrage after it was posted by a woman who said she was the victim of the beating seven years ago -- and that her parents, including her father, Aransas County, Texas, Court-At-Law Judge William Adams -- were the ones seen beating and cursing at her in the video.

On Wednesday afternoon, Judge Adams was temporarily relieved of his duties for the next two weeks, and a visiting judge will take over his caseload while the matter is being investigated, according to the office of Aransas County Administrative Judge Burt Mills.

No court dates were scheduled this week, Mills' office said.

In an interview with KZTV outside his Rockport, Texas, home Wednesday, Adams confirmed to a reporter that he was the man beating his daughter with a belt and a board on the video, taped in 2004.

"She's mad because I've ordered her to bring the car back, in a nutshell, but yeah, that's me. I lost my temper," Adams told the TV station. "Her mother was there, she wasn't hurt ... it was a long time ago ... I really don't want to get into this right now because as you can see my life's been made very difficult over this child."



Read more: http://www.cnn.com/2011/11/02/justice/texas-video-beating/?hpt=ju_c2



This man should lose his job, effective immediately. Anything other than that is an outreageous miscarriage of justice. He should also be tried for child abuse.

Warning: The video is very graphic and disturbing.
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Demeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:09 PM
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1. Who filmed it?
What a weird story.
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blueclown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:12 PM
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3. A webcam.
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47of74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:11 PM
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2. Note to that sick piece of work judge
I don't care when it was, I don't care if you don't think she was hurt, and I don't fucking care if you had a personal note from God complete with stone tablets! You had no right to beat her like that. If you had any decency you would resign your judgeship and surrender your law license goddamn yesterday.
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Lint Head Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:12 PM
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4. I was whipped with a belt as a child. It changed me and I've had to deal with it
my entire life.
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 10:04 PM
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21. I know the feeling. Took me far too long to realize it was beating.
I knew it was a horrible experience, I knew it hurt and made welts and broke skin and I was ashamed o go to school. I know I screamed and pleaded and lost all understanding sometimes of what I had done or why it was happening. I know I told myself crazy shit like I was lucky it was only a belt and my friend whose father used a coat hanger was REALLY being beaten.

That video takes me places I don't ever want to go again. It was real, all right.
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No Elephants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 10:55 PM
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26. I am so sorry that happened to you and your friend.
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AverageJoe90 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 01:07 PM
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67. Seconded and agreed. nt
NO kid deserves to be beaten, PERIOD.
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No Elephants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 10:54 PM
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25. I am so sorry that happened to you.
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Le Taz Hot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 06:22 AM
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55. Me too.
Except they called it "spanking" so it was OK. :eyes: Belts, wire hangers, shoes, whatever was handy. The damage done by "spanking" (usually being done by a person/persons who are SUPPOSED to be protecting you) is incalculable and takes years and years to work through -- if one ever does.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-05-11 01:40 PM
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84. People think I'm crazy when I call spanking child abuse.
We are a country of violent brutes. :(
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shanti Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 11:42 AM
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63. many of us boomers
suffered the same indignities. :(
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LiberalEsto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 05:19 PM
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75. ditto
:hug:
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 09:06 PM
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77. Me too.
:hug:
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:14 PM
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5. ....as you can see my life's been made very difficult over this child."
Words fail. This guy is a scumball. This is his beautiful accomplished daughter he is talking about as if she is just an annoyance to him. I saw the pictures of her playing the piano. I have two lovely daughters of my own and I would be thrilled to have a third one like her. He does not deserve to have a daughter like that.
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wordpix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:57 PM
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18. my mom has Alzheimer's which is difficult, too, judge--- but I cherish her
You're the lowest of the low and belong in jail for beating a child. Special needs people can be trying sometimes but no one deserves that. Take your frustrations out on folding the jail laundry, instead.
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NYC_SKP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:17 PM
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6. And he had help, there's a woman/mom/girlfriend in there too.
Accomplice.

Jail them both.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 11:15 AM
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60. Sicko enabler. nt
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Hassin Bin Sober Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 11:29 AM
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61. I'm prepared to cut the mother a little slack....
And defer to the, now adult, daughter who says mom was also a victim.

Also, it appears the mother is trying to "cover" for the daughter in at least two instances. At the beginning of the video she tells "dad" she has already spanked her. And then she hits the daughter once trying to satisfy the father.

I'm going to assume mom knows the feeling of dad's belt and she was trying to mitigate.
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Guest1 Donating Member (2 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-05-11 10:37 AM
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81. Mother may have been trying to help the only way she knew how
I know the mother is just as wrong as the judge, but I get the feeling that she wanted it to stop. I think she wanted to do it instead of the judge because she wouldn't be as brutal and she thought that would help to end the abuse for that time. As you see, she took the belt from the judge, only hit her once and she made sure it was on her butt. She took the belt from him to make him stop. Obviously it didn't work at all, but I think the mom was actually trying to show the poor child compassion here in the only way she knew how in a mentally abusive relationship.

Did you ever see Roots where there was a lynching going on of a slave who they had tied to a tree? Well this slave's master was actually one of the "good" white people and he told the brutal mob to stop lynching his slave, he would lynch his own slave. So he started lynching him in front of them, making it look real and as the crazy mob drove away, the "good" slave master started lynching the ground so that he could give the apearance that he was still very angry and carrying on the lynching until the mob was out of site. He actually saved the poor slave from the mob lynching him to death. I know this isn't the same situation but I really feel like that's what the mother was trying to do and apparently that's how she would try to protect her and that wasn't the first time. Because the judge knew he had to go and get another belt.

Why did he have turn out the light? I hope this scares chronic abusers to watch themselves because people are getting smarter and technology will help this to stop. I feel very sorry for her but I'm very proud of this young lady. I think this may help a lot of people, not just her.

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provis99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:18 PM
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7. He forgot the Third Rule of being a suspect:
"Deny, deny, deny."
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madaboutharry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:20 PM
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8. The saddest part of this story
Is that he doesn't love his daughter.

He is angry and bitter that she has a disability and sees her only in terms of how it changed his life. This is a selfish and unkind man.
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blueclown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:27 PM
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9. He's also a Republican.
In addition to being selfish and unkind. I know, kind of a redundant description.

Lock him up.
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Bosso 63 Donating Member (759 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:30 PM
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10. I want to see some justice for this SOB.
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harvey007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:39 PM
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11. Lock up this sick pervert
I was "spanked" with a belt as well, so this was especially hard to watch.

I hope this monster gets what he deserves - prison.

And the mother --- what a sicko.

Disgusting.
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Uben Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:41 PM
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12. Yeah well, many a man is serving time for losing their temper
His let his failure to control emotions become a crime. Certainly not worthy of wearing a robe. HE's toast!
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harvey007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:46 PM
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13. Someone needs to make a citizens arrest
http://www.aransascountytx.gov/main/

Judge William Adams
Aransas County Courthouse
301 N. Live Oak St. Rockport, TX 78382.
Phone: (361) 790-0138. Fax: (361) 790-0185.
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No Elephants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 10:59 PM
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27. A citizen's arrest applies to a crime in progress. You'd probably have to take
Edited on Wed Nov-02-11 11:00 PM by No Elephants
up residence in his home to catch him beating his disabled child.

Besides, I'd bet this guy is well armed.

Note. state laws many vary, but none of us has a license to be a vigilante at random.

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iamthebandfanman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:48 PM
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14. wow , see him trying to make himself the victim?
what a sicko.
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No Elephants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:03 PM
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28. Excellent observation. Republicans take personal responsiblity for absolutely nothing--
Edited on Wed Nov-02-11 11:08 PM by No Elephants
except for telling others totake personal responsibility.

They're all up in the "do as I say (at every opportunity), not as I do" form of taking personal responsiblity.
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iamthebandfanman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:06 PM
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30. oh trust me i know
Edited on Wed Nov-02-11 11:11 PM by iamthebandfanman
just had an argument with a woman a few days ago who said 'people should plan ahead' to have insurance like everyone else does instead of loading it onto other people..
to which i responded..

'so, your parents should have planned ahead and sent you to private school... wanna give that public high school degree back we all paid for since your parents did such a shit job planning ahead?'

of course i got the 'its not the same!' response.

silly me, duh it wasnt the same ..because it affected her in that scenario :P lol


whats really disturbing is this guy decided if other people broke the law or not. wonder how many abusers he convicted while doing the same thing himself?
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:19 PM
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38. It's worse than that.
He had developed a reputation for *not* punishing abusers. He wasn't a hypocrite, he was an enabler.
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KurtNYC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:54 PM
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15. obviously she taped it because it wasn't the first or only time
control freak
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BrendaBrick Donating Member (859 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:55 PM
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16. Does anyone know
if the daughter is in a place where she is safe & protected? Is she still 16? Can or is a stable relative stepping in here...or anyone else who is stable? Surely she is NOT with him - is she????
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:05 PM
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29. She was 16 in 2004.
She's 23 now, and doesn't live with him.
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BrendaBrick Donating Member (859 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:54 PM
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44. Thanks. Good to know.
Anyone know how she is doing...NOW?
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 04:42 AM
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48. She's living with mom.
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left on green only Donating Member (270 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 01:43 PM
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71. I wonder where her today 13yo sister is now living?
She was 6yo when the video was made and she can be seen briefly in the lower RH corner of the frame, at the start of the video (at least you can see her in the original incarnation of the video). Her name is Alison, and at the start of the scene, "Judge Adams" instructs his wife to get her out of the room before he begins to lay into her sister, Hillary with the belt.
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-04-11 12:18 AM
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79. She's spending most of her time with the mother.
They have joint custody, he's fighting for sole custody.

Fat chance of that ever happening, now.
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Guest1 Donating Member (2 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-05-11 10:41 AM
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82. Do you think he beat the 6yo also?
Do you think he beat the 6yo also? That is so scary.
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UpInArms Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:55 PM
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17. he needs to be required to pay whatever cost it is to
have his daughter go through a counseling program that helps her to understand that this behavior is not acceptable, not normal and not her fault - however long it takes for her to get to a point where this does not affect her ability to define herself and her future - her past or any part of her - that this defines him and his future and his past - and somehow sets her free from him in any manner.

From personal experience - that's a long long long road.

sigh

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No Elephants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:06 PM
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31. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
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1StrongBlackMan Donating Member (171 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 09:59 PM
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19. "I lost my temper."
Okay ... I so hope that the next time he goes out for a drink, some drunk guy/gal kicks the living shit out of him. So that at the trial the defendant can say: "I lost my temper ... You know, my life has been kind of rough lately."

At which point the defendant's attorney can ask the good plaintiff/judge to voluntarily withdraw all charges. So when the good plaintiff/judge indignantly refuses, the defendant's attorney can play this tape and ask: "If your explanation was excuse enough for you, why isn't it excuse enough for my client?"

Problem is ... with these type, the point would be lost on this guy because in their mind their case is ALWAYS different.
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Ken Burch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 10:02 PM
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20. "I lost my temper" is NOT an excuse
This man needs to be fired AND prosecuted...NOW.
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Ken Burch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 10:22 PM
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22. Can somebody tell me why it was so important to this bastard
to be able to hit the girl in the legs? Bad enough that he had to hit her...why was he insisting that it be on the legs?

And how could it be THAT unforgiveable that she was playing computer games?

(just trying to understand this mindset).
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 10:37 PM
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23. Because that's his justification. It's "whipping". "Beating" is other parts of the body.
I'm not kidding. People tell themselves stuff like this.

And the fact that welts and bruises on the legs are easily covered is just icing, right?

I HATE this. I hate it.
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No Elephants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:18 PM
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36. Guess I am out of touch. Is whipping supposed to be better than beating?
Edited on Wed Nov-02-11 11:19 PM by No Elephants
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:29 PM
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39. As I said, people use all kinds of ways to justify what they do.
To me it's the same as beating, and does terrible damage, and should be illegal. But in the culture in which I and many others grew up it was, and is, condoned. I remember Richard Pryor doing a routine about being told to go cut a switch be whipped with, and walking along swishing it back and forth, hearing it whistling in the air and crying.

Here's a bit of it:

http://youtu.be/OPMwN1_vEjM

I had to do that too. Switches and belts. Electrical cords seem to have come later, as belts went out of fashion.

God this is a horrible topic, isn't it?
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:16 PM
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32. It wasn't for playing computer games.
It was installing and using Kazaa to download games and music, without paying for said games and music, in defiance of prior instructions.

In another interview, he claimed he was "disciplining" her for "stealing".


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Ken Burch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:18 PM
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37. It's not as if installing Kazaa makes what he did ok.
Edited on Wed Nov-02-11 11:37 PM by Ken Burch
It should have been enough for him to just "de-install" it.

Sick bastard.
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:33 PM
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40. I was trying to help explain his mindset.
Abusers often have "reasons" like this, as a form of rationalization... "she brought it on herself" kind of things.
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Ken Burch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:36 PM
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41. I see. Sorry.
My wife, who died a number of years ago, had been a victim of childhood abuse and this is always something close to the surface with me.

Didn't mean to lash out at you.
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 03:03 AM
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47. No problem.
I'm a survivor as well (I hate, hate, hate, being called a "victim", fuck that, their power over me IS SO FUCKING OVER.).... sometimes wires just get crossed.

As part of my personal lifelong coping/healing process (it never seems to end, FFS), I wound up having to dig really deep into understanding the "why", the mindset of abusers.

Here's my general take:
Abusers were often abused themselves, sadly enough. This leaves them scarred, and scared, and fearful, which leads them towards lives of rigidity and control.... to protect themselves from any more abuse, which is deeply imprinted into the corners of their brain.

It's not that they really want to *hurt* others, it's that they want others to *not hurt* them. How this manifests, though, is the really ugly part. In this context:
1. Daughter is being unpredictable.
2. Daughter is "committing crimes", which could potentially subject the parent to future pain.
3. Daughter is being defiant, by not "following orders", which leads to a loss of a feeling of safety and control on behalf of the parent.
4. To "prevent future abuse" to one's self, they abuse others (as that's how they learned to control an environment).... to regain a feeling of control. In short: "If I hit them, I won't be hit."

Vicious fucking cycle, eh?
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BlancheSplanchnik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 04:14 PM
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74. Sure gives one an understanding of psychology, though
I had no trouble identifying the type of selfish, violent, cowardly, authoritarian, irresponsible, self-serving, out-of-control sicko this guy is.
I too come from a background of abuse...

taken me a loooong time to rejoin the human race. I imprinted on abuse and had no other view of myself except as 'victim' for a long time.

true, it never "goes away"; it's always interesting when people are talking about their childhoods (assuming we're talking about people who were raised by sane parents). I always feel like I just dropped in from another planet.
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No Elephants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:17 PM
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35. Trying to understand this mindset is not good for you
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BrendaBrick Donating Member (859 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:44 PM
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43. Mindset = Monster(s)
In every sense of the word. Yeah. I know. (I also had a hard time trying to wrap my head around it.)

They probably just blindly assumed that no one could call him out on it and he and she just acted accordingly under their own ill-advised, warped, subconscious premise that they were alone in their own house and that no one would ever be the wiser to witness these awful, markedly 'private' horrific acts.

Mistake #1.

See, that's the thing with these monsters...they pretty much think that they are above the law because well, by and large, they look at their offspring as mere properties...prey, objects, someone or something that they own, to just naturally exploit at their whim - a potential weak-less and vulnerable depository of a person who is not that hard at all to oppress given the particular circumstances and not exactly in a position to be able to retaliate... and also because of all the screwed-up family, generational dynamics that, as mature, responsible adults - they should have had AT LEAST the slightest inkling or even a hint of emotional wherewith-all to at least acknowledge these deficiencies first and foremost, and at the very minimum and ideally - to address and deal with...and yet, in this awful end fail (CHOOSE?) miserably to launch their own angst in this area...opting rather to project it towards an innocent, bystander person instead.

This is sadly the bottom line result as I see it.

What's even more sad is that I suspect that this is not at all, an isolated case...but it sure is good that it is getting some well needed press if there is to be some kind of silver lining here with all of this ~

Lesson #2 - Let this be a heads-up to the rest of ya'll who think you can get away with this kind of shit! The generation coming up nowadays is quite savvy and sophisticated...and I am so glad that they are!

The world is watching...not only in clear public view, but also in the dark recesses as well.


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Laluchacontinua Donating Member (277 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 12:00 AM
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45. I think he said he hit her on the legs because she wouldn't turn over.
I can't explain the mindset.
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robbob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 01:54 PM
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72. Nobody has mentioned yet
But I was truly shocked at his repeated insistence that she turn over so he can whip her on the "bottom" (= ass). It just seemed to me that there is some twisted sexual perversion going on and he wants to do this for some sick thrill. Or am I reading to much into it?
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Laluchacontinua Donating Member (277 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 02:22 PM
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73. I think you're reading too much into it.
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jtuck004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 12:04 AM
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46. Because it helps him think that he is different from people like my father,

I guarantee the judge thinks he is better, because my father's actions were much more vicious and hurtful than this video (hated tasting those belt buckles). Yet dad thought he was better than his father, who used to come home drunk and beat on him, so much so that he would go sleep in the sand traps on the golf course in the little town, because my dad wasn't much of a drinker. None of them are really any different, of course. I suspect my impulsiveness and quick anger are probably tied to that, though I like to think I am more aware, and don't much resort to physical violence. Because, you see, I am better/different than them. ;)

In the judge's mind he is not at all like those he sends to jail for assault or child abuse. And he can feel quite holier than they are when he does it.

It didn't matter that she was playing computer games, or anything else. It wasn't about discipline, like rape isn't about sex. It's about aggression, anger, and hurting someone to feed your bitter, dark excuse for a spirit. (Somewhat, I suspect, like being a mean-spirited anonymous jerk on the Internet who responds as such for no apparent reason).

I know some of what she felt/feels. It happened to her with enough regularity that she knew it was gonna happen again, so she could set up the camera. And she held onto this for 7 freaking' years. It lets me judge people a little less harshly when they shoot co-workers or strangers, or even blow people up, because I suspect many of them had something like this in their background. It stays with you.

Lots of people live a life similar to this victim, both young and old. That leads me to wondering who has the harder time - a child who grows up with this vs someone who doesn't experience it until the end of their life when they are much more vulnerable and don't have the defense mechanisms in place? What a sad question...

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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 01:07 PM
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68. a part of his rage against this poor kid: she refused to lay on her stomach
Edited on Thu Nov-03-11 01:11 PM by noiretextatique
the coward/freak wanted to hit her on the behind. he is a control freak and she "defied" him by downloading and playing games and music. she "defied" him again by refusing him her behind for his assault. :puke: disgusting coward.
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liskddksil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 10:43 PM
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24. "This child"...that's how he refers to his daughter.
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alp227 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:16 PM
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33. Mark Ciavarella would like a smart cellmate! nt
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Little Tich Donating Member (187 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:16 PM
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34. I think it's wrong to hit children, your own as well as those of others.
The fact that the hitter is a judge makes it worse, for he cannot use lack of education and ignorance as an excuse.
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Sub Atomic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-02-11 11:37 PM
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42. Spare the rod and spoil the child. To hell with what humanity might think.
Right judge?

Go eat a bowl of dicks with a spoon you asshole. You'd best pray that you and I never meet face to face.

I'd hate to take out my anger over what my dead mother did to me on you.



Not.
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AverageJoe90 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 01:08 PM
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69. Sorry about that. =( nt
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Tsiyu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 05:08 AM
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49. Your life has been made difficult because YOU made it so


Judge Adams. Your daughter didn't make you beat her, as you are implying. You CHOSE that course.

I can't see how anyone could allow him to hear any child abuse cases from this moment forward. And they should immediately order a review of all cases where he presided over victims of child abuse.

I hope many people come forward who were victims in his courtroom as well. He is a disgrace as a judge.



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hamsterjill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 10:01 AM
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58. Agreed! Plus, if he thought things were difficult before...
I hope he enjoys how difficult things are going to be after all of this. He will most assuredly have to resign his judgeship at a minimum.

Personally, I think the daughter is to be commended for having the intellect and the courage to set the webcam! Above and beyond what this sick bastard did to her, she outsmarted him by getting the video. This "difficult" child was pretty damn smart!

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SKKY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 05:24 AM
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50. I read this quote and my jaw just dropped...
"I lost my temper," Adams told KRIS-TV. "Her mother was there, she wasn't hurt... it was a long time ago... I really don't want to get into this right now because as you can see my life's been made very difficult over this child." http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/45135221/ns/us_news-crime_and_courts/

DUDE, you beat the crap out of your kid!!!! You're life hasn't been made difficult "...over this child." It's been made difficult because you're a sick fuck who has a serious anger problem who refuses to recognize that fact. I would love, love, love to give him a dose of what she went through in that 7 minutes of hell.

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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 05:59 AM
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51. He probably lived it already.
Sad thing, that.
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SKKY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 06:11 AM
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52. Great point. So did I...
...and I would never, ever do that. I know what conventional wisdom states, but I still maintain it's a conscious choice, beating your kid. And it's one I would never, ever make.
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 06:14 AM
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53. Here's the outlet I "give" my abusers:
Not all people know what choices they can make.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 01:13 PM
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70. the pathetic loser actually blames his daughter
:puke: i'd stand in a long line to slap this idiot upside the head
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mod mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 06:22 AM
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54. WTF? "my life's been made very difficult over this child." How about some responsibility?
He deserves prison time and to be disbarred.
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hamsterjill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 11:42 AM
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62. Oh, he's probably just like the dude who fined his wife for giving birth to a daughter
That story was on DU earlier this week.

In this judge's view, he probably blames the wife for giving birth to a child with a disability, and is probably (in his own stupid mind) ashamed of the child.

The young lady appeared very articulate and knowledgeable, mature and compassionate, on the blip I saw on the Today Show earlier. The judge SHOULD be very proud of his daughter for the young lady she has become despite his abuse.
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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 07:51 AM
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56. Also, in his defense, he had to use a belt to avoid hurting his hand.
:sarcasm:

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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 08:11 AM
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57. Most of the time when a parent/caregiver beats/whips/spanks a child,

it's about the parent being pissed off--not about whatever the child did or didn't do.

And of course, this is no way acceptable. I was beaten with a flyswatter and yardstick.

It didn't teach me a damn thing, surprise, surprise.



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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 10:54 AM
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59. He lost his temper for a couple decades.
Long-time abuser. I'm so glad this cockroach is exposed to the light.
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NoodleyAppendage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 11:47 AM
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64. "...this child." That little phrase by the sociopath judge says it all.
It's not "my child" or "our child," it's "...this child" indicating an emotional separation and thought of the child in question as property or an object.

It's likely that he is not suffering because it would take a conscience to produce real suffering.
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laundry_queen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 08:24 PM
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76. Doesn't it though?
What a POS.
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FlyByNight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 11:48 AM
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65. "I lost my temper"
Understatement of the year.

:grr:
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lucca18 Donating Member (149 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 12:03 PM
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66. Beyond horrible....
Someone was being interviewed (who knew the judge), and she stated that maybe he went too far, and there are two sides to every story. What?!! I couldn't believe what I was hearing!!
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CoffeeCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-03-11 09:09 PM
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78. This man is a typical abuser...
When confronted with his crimes, he has absolutely no remorse or empathy for the victim.

He is the victim now. In his words, "My life has been made very difficult over this child". She is an object to him. She most likely
always has been. In order to treat someone with such disdain and disregard, you can't have empathy for them. They are merely a repository
for your anger and your ugliness.

That's how he was able to beat her, and be unemotional about her cries and screaming. A normal human being and father couldn't bear
doing that to his child.

So now, when he's caught--she's making his life difficult.

What a sick bastard. We're all reacting to what you DID on the video--you sick abuser. You deserve to be outted for the animal
that you are, and your own current shame and embarrassment are of your own doing.

This man is a sociopath, and I hope that somehow he loses his job and more, because of his mental defects and his crimes against his own child.
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classysassy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-04-11 01:15 AM
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80.  The honorable Judge
Was he a republican?
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-05-11 01:38 PM
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83. Giving your DISBALED DAUGHTER a vicious beating like that is not "losing your temper".
It is sick, evil SADISM, you asshole! :grr:
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