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Dear Auntie Pinko,
I used to be patriotic, now I’m not. What’s the point in caring about a country that just said it’s okay to torture people? When they added that to all the other horrible things that America has done in the last six years it was the last straw. The rest of the world thinks we’re shit and I’m starting to agree with them.
The worst part about it was that people didn’t seem to notice or care that the Congress was talking about making torture okay, and when it did pass, again hardly anyone noticed or cared. Yes, there were other things in the torture bill, and they cleverly avoided using the word “torture.” But they gave the government permission to do horrible things to human beings, things that can’t be called anything but torture by any reasonable person. And I’m sure the government will be very careful not to rub people’s noses in the fact that we torture people, so that my fellow-citizens will easily be able to ignore that and get on with watching “American Idol.”
Auntie, is it right to be patriotic about a country that does this?
Stephanie Escanaba, MI
Dear Stephanie,
You’ll have to use your own judgment about whether it’s right to feel patriotism when your country is doing terrible things. It’s a matter of feeling, and, as with all such matters, there is no moral absolute. Even seasoned ethicists are wary of venturing into the territory of feelings. It is how we act that can be analyzed and judged right or wrong, based on many factors.
And in America, we have (or had, until Mr. Bush and his cabal of rogue lawyers started messing with things,) a very clear standard of what is “wrong” when it comes to acting against your country. Passing information about military secrets is wrong. Getting on a plane and going overseas to pick up a gun and fight against American troops is wrong. Betraying information or people to the enemy in a war is wrong. Until recently, that left a very large area in which people feeling angry or disillusioned about America could express their feelings without it being wrong.
The current Administration appears to be attempting to narrow that area and make large parts of it inaccessible. It’s important that we do not allow them to do so. We must continue to criticize our government and its actions. We must continue to organize and agitate and pass on information in an attempt to awaken others to the danger we perceive. Being intimidated into silence or complacency is the wrong response for an American who wants a good reason to be patriotic.
However, we also need to keep a little perspective. America has other terrible, shameful things in its history. Imagine living in a nation where slavery was legal? Where the government seriously attempted genocide against whole nations, and nearly succeeded? Iraq is not the first war of choice undertaken by an American President, nor is it the first time American troops have been responsible for appalling casualties and atrocities among innocent civilians. If we are to go by our country’s history of actions, Americans have no justification for pride or patriotism through large periods of our nation’s existence.
But love of country, like love of family, is not subject to logic or historical analysis. We love America for many reasons, some of which make no sense at all, viewed objectively. America is many things to the 300 million or so people who live here, and each person’s feelings about our country are based on our experiences here, our family and community as well as our nation, and dozens of other factors. I think you do love America, Stephanie, because it’s hard for something we don’t love to cause us such heart-wrenching pain.
No, we can’t be proud of America’s actions today. But there are things we can be proud of, things in our past that have exemplified the ideals that define our nation. And we can be proud of the future America our children and grandchildren will build if we lay the foundations today. We can be proud of the actions of thousands of individual Americans who work quietly for justice and peace all over the world.
We can be proud of ourselves as we work to restore the America we love, too. It can certainly be done. We have overcome horrible governments that have done horrible things in the past, we can do it again. Never give up hope! When you feel overwhelmed, spend some time deliberately looking for the good things— people working to restore communities devastated by pollution and natural disasters. People coming together to organize safe places for young people. The creativity of our artists, the beauty of our natural surroundings, the freedoms we still enjoy. Spend time with family and friends, because health, family, and friends are our real wealth.
Keep working for change, Stephanie, and thanks for asking Auntie Pinko!
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