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Daveparts still Donating Member (614 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 09:15 AM
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The Mean Country
The Mean Country
By David Glenn Cox


Last winter I wrote a story about the number of people who were dying in house fires after having their utilities turned off. I began to do some research on the growing numbers of tent cities springing up across America. How, I wondered, will these people deal with the coming months of winter cold?

But, as I find is so often the case, I start off on one story and end up doing another. Officially there are over fourteen million unemployed in America. That is the official number that the politicians will own up to; in actuality the number could be as high as twenty million.

I have been unemployed myself for well over a year. I have twenty years of management experience, and I have a great track record with a proven record for results. However, I am over fifty years old and to prospective employers that is the kiss of death. They perceive you as about to keel over from a heart attack at any moment.

There are very few jobs to be had; the department of labor reports six people looking for every one job available. Because of the economy I became homeless and now live in a garage. I am not an alcoholic, and I’m not hooked on drugs. I’m just unemployed.

So as I began to research the tent cities across the country, what surprised me, although it really shouldn’t have, was the attitudes of my countrymen towards their fellow homeless Americans.

Several years ago I read a book about a woman who was a holocaust survivor. She described how she would drag out the dead bodies from the barracks in the morning so that she could have the corpse's clothing. She could then trade the clothing for extra food or necessities. She said something that has always stuck with me. “Many people gave up on life because this was a world where it was very easy to give up on life. When you gave up then you just died.”

When you are homeless it is very easy to give up on life. Every activity is an uphill struggle, cooking food, doing laundry, looking for work, etc. The industry in which I worked has virtually ceased to exist. Many unemployed workers were employed in industries that have now ceased to exist. Their jobs and careers are gone, and yet the public sneers, “Get a job.” They also offer up the following helpful solutions, direct quotes all.

“As others have said..does it really help the homeless by providing them with a free home? I bet not. There are other solutions. I notice that when I give things to my children it does not tend to make them more responsible.. Just the opposite.”

“I don’t know the actual number, but what, isn’t it like 70-80 percent of all homeless people have drug/addiction problems? Even if it’s less how is tent city doing anything but enabling this problem? I know this is more about tent cities in general but honestly giving someone a free place to live along with free meals is not really motivating them to change.”

“The poverty pimps will not allow the homeless to be housed without 24/7 babysitting. Without the babysitting the homeless could move on with their live and thrive; NO MONEY IN THAT FOR THE POVERTY PIMPS!”

Homeless people are not children. For the most part they want the same things that any other citizen of this country wants.

In my two decades in management I have had to deal with employees with both drug and mental problems. Mental problems are sometimes masked by drug problems; just stopping the drugs does nothing to solve the emotional issues. It is not uncommon for a widower or a divorcee to struggle with depression and to then medicate themselves with drugs or alcohol. Why should it be so difficult to understand that a person who has lost everything they’ve owned and worked for to use the same treatment?

Many of these people have lost husbands, wives, and children. Why is it so hard to understand their pain? These people are not made of wood or stone; they are breakable. “Many people gave up on life because this was a world where it was very easy to give up on life.”


“You don't have to go beyond the first page of a Google search for "homelessness and criminal behavior" to find several links to studies, which find much higher rates of drug use, crime, and mental illness among the chronically homeless. It's sad, but some people are truly beyond saving.”

“I understand unemployment is up and some people have lost homes and need a hand to get back on their feet. These tent city's are not for these people. History shows that this is just a party camp for the homeless. Help the people who want to help themselves not the ones who just want a hand out to support their criminal activity.”

What is truly sad is how these people tend to view crime. They worry about the homeless man who might steal their purse but don’t give a thought to the corporate executives who might steal their pension. They want all drug abusers locked away in prison because they are beyond saving. Then they listen to and watch talk show hosts with long and chronic histories of drug abuse and bob their heads, agreeing in unison.

“If I lost my job and house, I would literally have 10 options as to where to stay til I got back on my feet. I understand I am lucky for having a good support system. But how does someone get to the point where there is not even a couch or friends garage they can crash in? the only answer I can come up with is Drugs. You guys can paint these people as business men down on their luck all you want, an it might be the case for a very tiny minority of them, but last I checked McDonald’s is still hiring.”

Almost ten million homes have been foreclosed on in the last three years. That means forty million Americans have been dispossessed. That number does not include renters who have also been evicted. So maybe these people are living with relatives but maybe the relatives also enforced conditions. “You can stay but that good for nothing husband or lazy, fat-ass wife can’t!” Take your choice, live with mom and dad by yourself? Or live in the street with your spouse? If children are involved what real choice is there?

As I peruse the want ads each day, I see many jobs that literally don’t pay enough money to keep the lights on. I had written about the job offered by the storage facility. Be available 24/7 to do sales, bookkeeping, maintenance and janitorial work at any facility in Atlanta. $300 per week, no mileage, no gas money, no benefits, no promise of steady work. I read an ad yesterday to rewrite 400-word articles for five dollars each. I thought to myself that at ten or twelve thousand words a day I could make a decent living. McDonalds and many large corporations take applications to keep a current stock of applicants on hand, but it doesn’t mean that they are hiring.

When Chrysler went through its recent bankruptcy I read about thousands in Chrysler management who had been permanently laid off. Most had worked their entire adult lives in the automobile industry, and I thought, "Where will these people find new jobs?" The problem is not drugs or alcoholism or even homelessness; the problem is jobs. Strange, isn’t it, that when America had a strong manufacturing base and a strong job market that we had few so-called defective people.

I live in the South and there are a great many literal Biblical believers who take the Bible at face value. I’ve always tended to view it in the same way as the Old Testament was written, in the form of parables. The stories are told in a way to make us see ourselves in them. Why else would they dwell on Christ’s long walk to Calvary? Dragging his cross, an innocent man convicted by society. As the onlookers heckle and throw things at him, mocking his burden, only one of the multitude stopped to offer him any kindness or assistance.

As Lenny Bruce said, “If Jesus had been killed twenty years ago, Catholic school children would be wearing little electric chairs around their necks instead of crosses.” This is a mean country that calls the victims criminals and the criminals innocents. So I’ve stopped worrying about the coldness of winter, as it will never blow colder than an American’s heart.
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ixion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 09:19 AM
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1. Or: No Country for Old Men
as it were.
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evenso Donating Member (113 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 10:06 AM
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2. Americans aren't the most compassionate people in the world
in fact they're nowhere close.
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juno jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 10:56 AM
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3. K&R! n/t
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mrs premise Donating Member (21 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 11:24 AM
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4. No country for poor men
I don't think that most Americans are inherently cruel. We have been indoctrinated. Our corporate overlords want it that way. We're told to fear our neighbor, fear the person walking toward you, fear the brown skinned person, fear the teenagers loitering on the corner, shun the person begging they are scam artists driving a Cadillac, fear the lonely walk to your car after dark, make sure to always lock your door, etc,etc...We have lost all sense of community, of being part of something bigger than ourselves. We pop on our ipods, sit for hours chatting on the web (ironic isn't it) or plop in front of the TV, and these are our sole access to the world. We are told we all need to be middle class, and those who do not fit in that narrow mold are throw away people. Druggies, thieves, or prostitutes none are worthy of even our scorn. Coming from a very poor childhood, I was on the receiving end of that prejudice. So it comes again. Both my husband and I have now lost our jobs. We are behind on or mortgage. I do not know what will happen. Our credit is terrible, so how could we get approved for an apartment? How would we come up with 1st and last? We might have to move in with his parents. As more and more Americans experience this, I think that we will see a shift. I read about people banding together as communities to make all their lives better. These are small rays of hope, in a very dark place. If nothing else, maybe this will finally bring us together again. Maybe, because we have lost our value as mindless consumers, our owners can feel free to ignore us, and we can band together to make a better world. On small piece at a time.
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ShortnFiery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 02:34 PM
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8. Well put.
I hope that your situation improves in the near future.

My words mean little to nothing, but they are genuine.

I'm going to take a clue from Rachel Maddow and ban the M$M TV from my life.

We all need to get out more .... and help others who are less blessed than ourselves.

Best wishes to you and thanks for helping to set my priorities straight.
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mrs premise Donating Member (21 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 03:02 PM
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9. Thank You
Your words do mean something. It is nice not to feel alone. Connecting to others is going to become more important in these times. I am new on here, and the reason I chose to become a member was the sense of togetherness. Irascible as I have seen it get at times, but still bound by a common thread of decency.
That to me is what being a Democrat used to mean. Although, now I call myself a Liberal, and proud of it. That others are out there, either hurting or wanting to help is a true comfort.
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DemReadingDU Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 10:10 PM
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10. Elsewhere I have read

that as more and more people lose their jobs, income/savings, home, that they find some comfort by moving in with family. It's not easy to share living space, but when everyone shares their skills, then each finds a purpose in life by helping and sharing together.

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ljm2002 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 06:31 PM
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16. Welcome to DU!
If you are getting behind on your mortgage, please insist that the lender produce the note. Just a Google search of "Produce the note" will find many links, here is one:

http://www.consumerwarningnetwork.com/2008/06/19/produce-the-note-how-to/

There was also a recent ruling in Nebraska. Many mortgages are listed with a system called MERS, which was created just for the purpose of tracking all those mortgages that got packaged up into financial instruments. The Nebrasks court ruled that MERS has no standing to initiate foreclosures. Apparently there are tens of millions of mortgages listed with MERS, and while the Nebraska ruling does not make law for all the states, it is taken note of and adds weight to other courts who may rule on similar issues.

Don't roll over for the bastids. If you can delay things, you may be able to better your situation. In any case, don't let them steamroll you!

And good luck!!!
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Lost Jaguar Donating Member (193 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 11:24 AM
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5. Contempt for Weakness...
...I see it every day. I believe it is born in a person's fear of their own weakness. It's an almost existential dread, and as soon as it is glimpsed, is ignored; subdued by a self-assurance that "it couldn't happen to me."

I pray for the enlightenment of such people. They are living in denial of the first great truth of Buddhism: suffering is universal. To deny its existence, or to blame the victim, is to set yourself up for your own suffering.

May their future incarnations be more receptive to the lessons being taught all around them.
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izquierdista Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 02:13 PM
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6. What is a "poverty pimp"?
From the context, I take it to mean a bureaucrat running a shelter who has more rules than compassion. :shrug:
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ShortnFiery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 02:27 PM
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7. Mean and GREEDY nation. No longer do we "pull together" for the community.
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troubledamerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-30-09 11:27 PM
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11. Nietzche quote
"But thus do I counsel you, my friends:

distrust all in whom the impulse to punish is powerful!"
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sabrina 1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 03:05 PM
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13. Good quote. And those who rush to punish others,
are often the ones hiding their own crimes. Vitter, Craig et al are perfect examples of that.
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Joanne98 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-01-09 05:01 AM
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12. People are self medicating. It's another problem that would be helped with

free healthcare. The selfish and cold attitudes of the people you quote come from Ronald Reagan. Another evil legancy he left us with. They're all going to hell as far as I'm concerned.

I was hoping you had gotten a job by now. My unemployment just ran out but I have a tempory job starting next month. I'm still screwed though my bills over overwhelming me.

You're such a good writer. Maybe this will turn out to be your new career. I'm like to see you start hitting the right a little harder though.

:hi:
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 04:30 PM
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14. What people? ALL people? All POOR people? ALL DUers? What people are you talking about
who are "self medicating?

This is the problem with our media.... they keep saying these things, so people think they now have all the answers.

Please listen to this... I AM HOMELESS. I DO NOT "SELF MEDICATE" I have never been a drunk, nor do I use drugs.

OK?

Now, would you like to amend your all-encompassing statement?

I really shouldn't have to defend myself from scurilous criticism on a supposed well-informed forum of "progressives".

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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-02-09 04:45 PM
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15. "as it will never blow colder than an American’s heart."
such a very good essay! Is this your work?

There is so much to respond to in these words, but I will say this--you have captured very well the ignorance of people about homelessness.

And here is a large part of the problem---the "Progressive" media is doing NOTHING to combat this ignorance!

NOTHING!



As a matter of fact, I have heard "progressives" even ADD to the ignorance! :grr:
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JeffR Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-03-09 05:30 PM
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17. Kick!
Great read.

Very well done.

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