It is no secret that Dec. 25 is not known to be the true birth date of Christ, and that the Christmas celebration, once established in winter, assimilated and usurped other seasonal, pagan festivals. Therefore, Jesus can hardly be said to be “the reason for the season” in the sense that phrase is most commonly used. He is certainly the reason for Christmas itself, and, it should be noted, all seasons and all things, but not specifically winter or festivals therein.
Of special interest, then, are the belligerent Christians who appear during this season to bully and undermine the celebrators of other religions and holidays. When a “Christmas parade” becomes a “holiday parade,” a fury rises from our peaceful brothers. Never mind that Christmas has not been removed, but other holidays have been added. This I-got-here-first mentality is embarrassing and unfitting.
Calling a parade a Christmas parade does no more to insert Christ into the proceedings than writing “duck” on one's forehead transforms one into waterfowl. Abandoning "Happy Holidays" for "Merry Christmas" does not make a believer out of a stranger. We forget that atheists celebrate Christmas as well. And yet, Christians encourage rather than dissuade them when we place importance on the name and not the value, on the surface and not the spirit.
Christians believe all things belong to Christ, but we should never forget that we are the only ones who believe that. Let others' hearts be changed by Christ's work done inside each of us. This holiday should showcase God's spirit of love. Coercion, manipulation and intimidation are not His style.
http://www2.timesdispatch.com/news/letters-to-the-editor/2010/dec/18/let-ar-723700/