http://www.motherspeak.org/this is disconcerting tho
My son, Nick, is deployed with the 82nd to a large base north of Baghdad. He left January 9, 04; on Jan 26, I followed him there. Crazy? Possibly. Nick certainly thought so. But I really needed to have a context for the place my son working. He'd spend almost 9 months in Afghanistan last year (Jan - Sept, 03) and I didn't feel quite the same level of anxiety for his well being.
I'm also trying to honor my son's efforts, and the efforts of all our soldiers, by creating a book of interviews with mothers -- Amerian and Iraqi.
Baghdad is a sad place. And a dangerous place. The US military, once welcomed by Iraqi and Baghdadis, is no longer welcome. Our policies and practices in the country are creating great resentments amongst the local people, especially the Muslim. Policies such as smashing in the doors of residences as families sleep and dragging the family out into the street in their nightclothes (very shameful for Muslim families -- especially women -- to appear like this in public); humiliating Iraqi men in front of their families -- creates huge insecurities and traumas in family members; random shootings of civilians in the streets due to stress or lack of proper training in military personnel; arrests and detentions without due process and without allowing family members to know the whereabouts of arrested. (As someone who grew up in Apartheid South AFrica I'm familiar with these sorts of arrests but I never thought I'd see American military practicing them!!)
Lots more to share. What would you like to know?
And, yes, I visited with my son. Sheer luck...had very little help (actually NONE!) from military leadership to do it but