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I take it you haven't spent too much time on the internet or, for that matter, on DU if you think that thread constituted some sort of horrifying flame-fest. If you put out opinions in a discussion forum, you probably are in the wrong place if you expect people simply to say, "Well, golly! I'd never thought of it that way. Good point!" You especially should not expect that when you are putting out a fairly controversial position for the environment in which you are operating.
You claimed in that thread, and claim in this one, to wonder what people think about the question. You seem, however, to take it very hard if people think about the question some way other than you do. You seem to feel that you are completely within your rights to treat others as terribly naive and uninformed, and that they should respond, I guess, with a humble, "Thanks for straightening me out on that."
As to your current post, in which you air your hurt feelings, I respectfully submit that you are dissembling rather badly. But, since I participated in the other thread, I thought I might have overlooked some of the carnage which you detail here. So I went back and read the other thread, in its entirety. Here is what I found:
You say you "got a ton of really irresponsible, thoughtless or irrelevant condemnations, and I mean condemnations!" I'm sorry, I looked for those and could not find them. Disagreeing with you, in strong terms, does not constitute condemnation. If you cannot make that distinction, I suggest you harden your armor a bit before you presume to lecture on the internet. Point me, please, to...I'll make it easy...two posts which constitute condemnation.
You say, "To read through the posts I thought I was looking at Free Republic—the same sort of thoughtless nasty uninformed bile." I challenge you to show me one post--just one--that comes even remotely close to the sort of nasty uninformed bile you will find on Free Republic. Given that I was preparing to respond to this post, I read with my nasty bile detector set to "high." Yet I could not find it. Again, you were argued with, frequently harshly. But "thoughtless bile?" Not even close. The worst you could find would be thoughtful bile, but I don't think you'll find bile at all.
You say, "There was the 'if you love the Iraq War so much why don’t you enlist?' arguments, which I guess are the DU version of 'go back to Russia!'" I will here give you the benefit of the doubt, and say that you have experienced an analytical failure, rather than go with my first reaction, which is that you are engaging in dissembling of the baldest sort. Accurately stated, the sentiment is: If you are going to be so cavalier about, or so willing to sacrifice, American lives, you should be willing to make one of those your own. Can you see the distinction there? The comments were not about support, or lack thereof, for "the Iraq war." They were a response to your repeated assurance that you will, albeit ruefully, countenance an additional 20,000 or so American deaths in order to do what you consider to be the right thing. By the way, there are more than 100 posts in that thread. A total of five suggest enlistment could be a learning tool for you. I may have missed one, so I'll give you six. That hardly constitutes a majority view (even though, in light of what I've written above, I think there's merit to it).
You say, "There were comments that I have no right to even have ideas about Iraq policy unless I have a loved one stationed in Iraq." Now on this one, I'm teetering on the edge of bald dissembling. But I'll again give you the benefit of the doubt for analytical difficulties. Here is the sole instance I could find that comes even close to what you say happened (it's #48): "dont make blanket statements about staying the course unless you either have a loved one there about to be blown to bits, or do some research as to whats going on with the military." Now, it's a far, far stretch to turn that into "I have no right to even have ideas." The poster says you should not make blanket statements. The poster has a point, IMHO.
You say, "Posters lectured me about colonialism. . .." And, we might add, you defended the colonialist point of view. Post #41: "The fact that many have claimed something as pretext doesn't make it inaccurate in all cases. The British said that if they left India a religious war would break out killing nobody knows how many hundreds of thousands or millions. And that's just what happened."
Continuing the above sentence, you say, "and informed me that I am in thrall of Republican propaganda." In fact, someone did say, (Post #12) "You are buying the propaganda of lies pushed by bush* and his buddies that only 'insurrgents' are fighting us." And it appears, based on your statements that this particular point is correct. Do you see the difference between saying, "On this particular point, you seem to be buying the official story," and saying, "You are in the thrall of Republican propaganda."
I am not going to line-by-line the rest of this missive about your ill treatment. Much of it reiterates the same points (e.g., "I was repeatedly informed that only people who have served in the military are entitled to opinions on national policy," which is a variant on the "told me I should enlist," and is also, really, this time I'll say it, a bald-faced lie). Saying that Pilger was presented to you as gospel is a falsehood: You were pointed to a Pilger article; since Pilger has lived in that part of the world for many years, you might excuse some of us if we think he knows more about the situation than you do.
Finally, how apologetic should anyone feel to have wounded the delicate sensibilities of a person who heads his Post #98, "You, sir or madam, are a fascist"? Is that pot/kettle or is it dish/can't take? I can never keep those two straight.
If what you really wanted was for a whole bunch of people to say, "Oh, my god! You've really sorted it all out. What could I have been thinking?" You could have said that in your first post. Something like, "Here's the truth. If you agree, feel free to say thanks. Otherwise, don't post on my thread."
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