Kelly Burke holds her son Avery, 3, while playing in the back yard Wednesday, Nov. 3, 2004, in Portland, Ore. Like many housewives, Burke relies on her spouse's employer for her own health insurance. But because Burke is a lesbian, it was only this spring after Multnomah County momentarily flung open the door to gay marriage, that she became a legal 'spouse' _ and was one of a handful of married gays and lesbians who began receiving comprehensive medical insurance through their partner's employer.PORTLAND, Ore. - As she watched her 3-year-old son convert a box into a spaceship, Kelly Burke was dreading the arrival of a letter that could change their lives. The stay-at-home mom and her partner of 15 years, Dolores Doyle, are among the nearly 3,000 gay couples who wed in Oregon this spring. Now the status of those marriages, and the benefits that come with them, is unclear after Oregon voters decisively approved a ban on gay marriage this past week.
The mailman came this morning and I panicked," said Burke, who relies on Doyle's employer for health insurance. "My first thought is: 'Oh my God, here comes the letter. They're cutting me off.'"
While 11 states passed constitutional amendments banning gay marriage on Election Day, Oregon is the only state among them where the government has already approved gay marriage, albeit temporarily.
Some 2,960 gay couples tied the knot after Multnomah County momentarily flung open the door to same-sex marriage. A judge stopped the practice after six weeks, and the state has refused to acknowledge the marriages pending the outcome of a lawsuit on the constitutionality of banning same-sex marriage.
Still, some companies took it upon themselves to view the couples as legally married, extending benefits — such as insurance coverage — not previously available.....more
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