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And I was immediately reminded of a guy named Buddy. We graduated the same year, 1968, from a Catholic high school outside Philly. Like me, he was a small kid, and I always suspected that led him to do things that would prove his manhood. Me, mostly I didn't give a shit about stuff like that.
I was looking forward to attending college in September and knew I'd have a draft deferment for the next four years. At the time I really wasn't either for or against the Vietnam War; it was sorta just there and irrelevant to me since I wasn't going to have to worry about it till 1972...by which time it would surely be over.
I'm sure Buddy could've gotten into college at that time. He was reasonably intelligent, did fairly well in school as far as I knew, and tuitions were much more reasonable back then and financial aid more plentiful. But Buddy decided to enlist in the Marines. I didn't understand it, but it fit in with his personality.
He wanted to be a man...a REAL man.
Immediately after graduation, like many of my classmates, I spent a few days at the Jersey shore in Wildwood for "senior week." Buddy was staying a few doors down in the same motel, and one night several us ended up in Buddy's room, drinking beer and watching TV, which that night was featuring John Wayne in "The Sands of Iwo Jima." As the American flag filled the screen at the end of the movie, Buddy and his buddy--another classmate, with whom he was enlisting under the Marines' "buddy system"--wobbily stood up and saluted.
That image is my last memory of Buddy.
I already knew he was scheduled to be inducted in September. Through friends, I heard sometime around January that he'd been shipped to Nam...around March or so, I heard he'd been wounded. In June 1969, almost a year to the day since I saw him saluting the TV screen in that Wildwood motel, he was dead.
You know, I'm not a pacifist. Heck, I wasn't even against the Vietnam War until it was almost over...when I found out how much our government lied to us in order to create public support for the war.
But when I think of people like Buddy, or that young soldier in the teacher's photo, whose lives were snuffed out because a government lied to us about war, I have to demand two things before I support a war: 1. The government has to have damn good reasons for the war; and 2. The government better not be lying to us.
In the Iraq war, the Shrub junta failed to live up to either of my demands.
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