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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:30 PM Original message |
Why hitting kids is a bad idea |
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ananda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:32 PM Original message |
All hitting does.. |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
1. Great essay! |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:14 PM Response to Reply #1 |
35. Hey thanks I appreciate that |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
2. Creeps who whip their infant? |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:37 PM Response to Original message |
3. Here's a good reason why not to hit your kid.... |
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IrateCitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
4. Hitting and spanking are not the same thing |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:41 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. That is an empty rationalisation |
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IrateCitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:43 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Whatever. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:46 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. spanking is hitting |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:54 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Obviously. |
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IrateCitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:54 PM Response to Reply #12 |
20. Like I said... whatever. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:58 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. Wow NOTHING I could say would change your mind |
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IrateCitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:05 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. No, NOTHING -- because my view is based on personal experience. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:10 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Maybe you should re-examine your prejudices |
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IrateCitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:23 PM Response to Reply #31 |
41. I'm willing to learn from my own experiences first... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:28 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. Look at the evidence |
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IrateCitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:31 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. I look at the evidence every time I look in the mirror... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:45 PM Response to Reply #47 |
51. Did you even read my essay? |
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trotsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:59 PM Response to Reply #44 |
54. Hold on... that's an unwarranted leap. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:07 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. I'm not saying banning spanking is the only reason Sweden is doing so well |
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trotsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:11 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. The Swedes have a better attitude towards a lot of things. |
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retnavyliberal (165 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:18 PM Response to Reply #44 |
83. I question that stat. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:10 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. How does spanking not harm? |
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IrateCitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:19 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. Nope, it was never that way for me |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:26 PM Response to Reply #38 |
86. Yeah, context is important. |
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Dutch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:31 PM Response to Reply #7 |
48. agreed- spanking is just a cosy word for hitting |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:01 PM Response to Reply #48 |
70. reality is that if you eliminate qualitative distinctions |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:06 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. I've been slapped and punched |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:15 PM Response to Reply #72 |
81. on the news right now |
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Bethany Rockafella (916 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:42 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. I agree. Nothing wrong with spanking their little bottoms. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:51 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. What about Hitler? |
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Bethany Rockafella (916 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:55 PM Response to Reply #15 |
23. Oh, so you bring Hitler in this. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:01 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Not just Hitler - most violent criminals were hit as kids |
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IrateCitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:55 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. Hitler didn't get "spanked" -- he got BEATEN by his father. |
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Adelante (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:52 PM Response to Reply #24 |
52. I think you're right |
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woodsprite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:17 PM Response to Reply #8 |
36. I was spanked as a kid and there are sometimes kids |
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wideopen (563 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:45 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. Exactly! |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:50 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. I agree with you. I was spanked as a kid, I don't feel "abused" either. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:55 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. Yeah, teach them PAIN and FEAR |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:29 PM Response to Reply #21 |
46. Pain and Fear? |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:34 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. Hitting someone causes PAIN. They then obey because they are AFRAID |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:48 PM Response to Reply #50 |
67. I was not affraid. |
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luvLLB (394 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:53 PM Response to Reply #14 |
53. i agree with you, I was spanked as a kid, and I was NOT abused, |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:51 PM Response to Reply #4 |
16. Very well said! |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:18 PM Response to Reply #4 |
37. My parents had a routine |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:23 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. You didn't need to do that |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:44 PM Response to Reply #40 |
79. Do YOU have children? |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:18 PM Response to Reply #4 |
82. I always try to read your posts |
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RoundRockD (426 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
5. You're not a good christian if you don't hit your kids. |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
6. Spanking vs. hitting |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:43 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. That's exactly what happened to me |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
13. Another thing that some people don;t seem to consider |
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geniph (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:54 PM Response to Reply #13 |
19. One size most certainly does not fit all |
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AndyTiedye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:56 PM Response to Reply #19 |
69. What If the Kid Enjoys the "Punishment |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:25 PM Response to Reply #69 |
75. "He laughed at spankings." |
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AndyTiedye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 07:03 PM Response to Reply #75 |
88. Could Be |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:55 PM Response to Reply #13 |
22. That's the saddest thing - the logic seems to be when all else fails, hit. |
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AndyTiedye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:51 PM Response to Reply #13 |
87. Probably Helped Make a Masochist Out of Me |
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jedr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
17. Very despot in history was the result of physical abuse, |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
27. You're absolutely right - there is no reason to hit (spank) a child. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:04 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. All hitting is illegal in Sweden |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:11 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. Education is so obviously what's sorely needed... |
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doodadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
30. Abuse vs Spanking |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
34. i don't condone hitting children...my culture does |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:19 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. That's gonna make it WORSE! |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:28 PM Response to Reply #39 |
45. personally, i think people who feel powerless |
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MXMLLN (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:07 PM Response to Reply #45 |
55. More realistically ... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:09 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. But you weren't stupid kids right? |
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MXMLLN (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:20 PM Response to Reply #57 |
63. No more stupid than any other kids whose parents limit their misbehaviour. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:12 PM Response to Reply #55 |
60. that's not exactly realistic, is it? |
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MXMLLN (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:29 PM Response to Reply #60 |
64. There are reasons enough as to why we are over-represented ... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:30 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. good for you...i suspect your mom |
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MXMLLN (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:41 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. Yeah ... that too. n/t |
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thecai (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
42. Understandable |
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Judi Lynn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:28 PM Response to Original message |
43. So glad you took the time to write your thoughts out, and post them here. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:31 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Thank you for your understanding |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
58. Some observations... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:14 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. good points |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:18 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. I think you are correct in most cases... |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
68. Even just spanking can escalate |
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morgan2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
71. the sheep need to be beat |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. I hope that was an Ironic post ! |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:22 PM Response to Original message |
74. While I hold no judgement in my heart for parents who |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:32 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Bouncy, you are like unto a god |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #76 |
78. Well I seriously love YOU! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:20 PM Response to Reply #74 |
84. Fantastic post, BB |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
77. Thanks for your post |
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lolamio (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
80. Here is the link to another good article about the dangers of spanking |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:22 PM Response to Reply #80 |
85. Thanks! |
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Taxloss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
89. Great essay. |
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