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sabra Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 03:59 PM
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Why does * refer to people by their first names?
In the current press conference, we've already have Tony, and Condi...

it drives me crazy

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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:00 PM
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1. he's an asshole
and his brain is addled
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Pirate Smile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:01 PM
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2. It is disrespectful and he is a bully. He would freak if someone
called him "George".
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:02 PM
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5. or Chimp.
Now that would be hilarious. We need a Freudian slip somewhere.
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Az_lefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:02 PM
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6. He freaked when a reporter called him "Sir"...
chimp: "who are you talking to?"
reporter: "you Mr. President"
chimp: "Oh, that's what I thought"
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Pirate Smile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:12 PM
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13. Exactly. I couldn't remember the specific details of that so I didn't
mention it. Such an asshole. It is amazing.
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:01 PM
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3. It makes him feel like he has the upper hand...
Paul O'Neill spelled it out fairly well in his book. In other words, he is an ass.
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VOX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 05:24 PM
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20. Hammer. Nail-head. Wham.
Center shot, tallahasseedem. :thumbsup:
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lolly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:01 PM
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4. Hierarchy
Calling someone Mr. or Ms. is a form of respect--that's why we use it with teachers, people we don't know well and don't want to insult.

Note, however, that teachers call students by their first names.

AWOL wants to make sure everyone knows HE's the one at the top.
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RaleighNCDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:38 PM
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15. Also a passive-aggressive thing.
Apologies to the sane southerners on the board, but since moving to the south I've seen it a lot. Never used to see it back in the mid-west. I work at a job where I have to wear a name tag, and have people addressing me by my name, not in a friendly way but in a quite condescending way, expressing their conviction that they as the customer are quite superior to me as the lowly worker. And they know I have to just smile and take it.

I've lived in many places, but never have I seen passive/aggressive behavior so marked as in the south.

Probably a result of their insecurity for having fought to retain what they know is an unconscionable social order.
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:02 PM
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7. Barbara didn't teach him any manners
when he was growing up. I guess he called all his servants by their first names.
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Qanisqineq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:02 PM
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8. Augh! I hate that too
I think it seems so unprofessional or unpresidential. If he called me by my first name, I'd call him George.
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Media_Lies_Daily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:03 PM
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9. Because they're holding up big cue cards?
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:04 PM
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10. Maybe because he's a rude, arrogant prick
who knows he can demean people a little by being overly familiar. Kind of like how slaves and servants were only ever called by their first names instead of "Mr." or "Mrs." He's putting people "in their place."
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brainshrub Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:08 PM
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11. He's a bully.
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City Lights Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:11 PM
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12. He's an arrogant sonofabitch.
He thinks it makes him look folksy.
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:25 PM
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14. nicknames too
Paul O'Neill for one found it to be insulting.

he has to "reduce" other people, a tool of arrogance.
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:42 PM
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16. It is how a patrician pantywaist refers to the help
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cestpaspossible Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 04:53 PM
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17. To show disrespect. nt
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HullBoss Donating Member (57 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 05:02 PM
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18. It drives me crazy when he does that
especially when he's speaking about foreign leaders -- Vladimir, Tony and I'm sure his good buddy Osama.
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newyawker99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 05:53 PM
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21. Hi HullBoss!!
Welcome to DU!! :toast:
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HullBoss Donating Member (57 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:22 PM
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23. Ha, fooled you....
Edited on Tue Jun-07-05 07:24 PM by HullBoss
I'm actually Blue_In_AK forced to use HullBoss's computer while mine is being rebuilt. I didn't even know HullBoss was a member, so imagine my surprise when my first post came up under his name. Anyways, I'll pass on your welcome when he comes back from Texas, and tell him he'd better get on here and speak for himself. He only had two posts. Pathetic. :) I've passed 2,000 already.
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LibDemAlways Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 05:11 PM
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19. If Malloy could figure out a way to get into
a chimp press conference, we'd hear the dumbass referred to as "man or monkey." That would be a moment for the ages.
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Democrat 4 Ever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:09 PM
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22. Because Commander CuckooBananas was taught you always
address your social inferiors by their given names. Its an elite, frat boy kinda of thing his Mommy taught him very early on.

That and his coke addled, booze soaked brain can't remember anything but first names. Why do you think every reporter is called Stretch?

Wish Blair had enough sense to be offended but unfortunately Poodle Boy is vying for a promotion - he wants to be Chimpy's pool boy at the ranch in Crawford after he leaves the prime minister's position. He doesn't understand that Chimpy & Co. will drop him like a bad case of syphilis as soon as he can not help them any more.
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karlrschneider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:45 PM
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24. Not to defend the chimp but I have addressed people by first name for
about 40 years (and I ask them to address me the same way.)

But then, I'm not the "president"...if I were, I would restrict it to
people I considered friends, and in private. It's a subtle but significant distinction; as a private citizen I reserve the right to use the given name to anyone I meet (and I've pissed off a few people doing so but tough shit, I say) Even when I was in the USAF, I very rarely addressed my superiors by 'title' alone and never in private or semi-private encounters...but in more 'group' settings, I'd say "Colonel Mike", "Captain Jack", etc. Never created a problem.
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