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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:41 PM
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Instead of breast feeding (no breast feeding
for the discreet Mom) We are one crazy culture when we have carriers so a bottle will be held like a breast. But hey, noone will see an exposed breast. This is carried at Babies R Us and is very popular. :eyes:

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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:43 PM
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1. I think we should breast feed in public and pray in the bathroom
the world would be a much better place
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:57 PM
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8. As long as the praying is done silently and in private stalls...
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OldLeftieLawyer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:44 PM
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2. Another one of those things .......
that makes me believe more than ever that we, the human types, are really begging for extinction.
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wildeyed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:46 PM
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3. Granted, that is a strange item.
But not all women are able to breast feed their infants. And Dad can't. So if it floats their boat, no harm done.
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:47 PM
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5. I know that not all can breast feed
but this thing is just strange.
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medeak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:53 PM
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6. agree
I breast fed and it was great blah blah..... but my secretary who we allowed to bring baby to work could sure have used one of these...
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:46 PM
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4. Breastfeeding my kids was one of my greatest accomplishments...
There is absolutely nothing better than looking into those precious eyes knowing that you are giving them the very best start. How some women find this disgusting is beyond me.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:12 PM
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10. Heheh.. I was rather.. large.. and had to do the football hold when Bran
was teensy. It was so amazing to see those tiny finger and big eyes.. and nothing else cause it was all tucked away under moi. *g* He used to get the giggles when he nursed.. andy ever laugh tickled, which made me laugh.. which of course made him laugh.. and so on. :D
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radwriter0555 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:17 PM
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11. Why is breastfeeding a great accomplishment? I was always unclear on
Edited on Tue Jun-07-05 07:17 PM by radwriter0555
why childbirth, breast feeding, parenthood and child-rearing are such great achievements?

I did it all, alone no less, and I don't get what all the fuss and heroics are about. It's enjoyable for the most part, but seriously... why all the fuss? It's not like they're the first humans or anything.

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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:34 PM
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14. No they certainly are not the first humans...
However, they are the first humans I have given birth to. Everything about being a parent is great, the good and the bad. If that is a great accomplishment for me so be it. If is is just an experience for you, well, so be it also.
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medeak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:25 PM
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12. greatest accomplishment?
I breastfed too...but lordy.. thankfully have accomplished more than that!
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:31 PM
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13. As a matter of fact it was.
After latching problems, mastitis, and so on, I felt it was a great accomplishment. I also have a PhD in Medicinal Chemistry that I think is a great accomplishment. To each their own. Everyone prioritizes their lives differently.
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medeak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:35 PM
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15. pray tell how old are your kids?
mine are gone and making their own accomplishments. Breastfeeding was a wonderful bonding experience yes..and appreciated those moments to relax. But.. raising brilliant considerate humans takes a lot more than that.

My fear is that those people who can't breastfeed (like single working moms) will feel degraded in some way that they didn't have the "experience" Mothers endure enough guilt.

And your comment about who could find it disgusting... I agree..but perhaps I missed it here but saw no one say that?
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:45 PM
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16. LOL!!! I have a while to go before the little ones are out of here...
They are 4 and 2. I guess the memory is still a little fresh! Sometimes I miss it.

The "disgusting" remark was actually related to the whole View, Barbara Walters fiasco. Sorry about the mix up.

In my humble opinion parenting is a great accomplishment. There are times where it seems that the other things I have done in my life were a piece of cake!
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medeak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:47 PM
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17. where is the view link?
I think I heard something about that today? What happened? Was this while Rosie O'Donnell was on... now that was great!
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:52 PM
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20. Here ya go!
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medeak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 08:10 PM
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25. Barbara Walters adopted only child
perhaps she has some issues?
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:49 PM
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18. You missed the recent threads about
Edited on Tue Jun-07-05 07:50 PM by cally
breast feeding. Many found bf disgusting and that all bf should be done in private. I don't.

on edit: Here's a DU link to the View thread. http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=102&topic_id=1528913&mesg_id=1528913
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Gelliebeans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:58 PM
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22. thanks for pointing out in your post
the other side of the coin. I appreciate it as I am sure other women reading that didn't breastfeed because they were unable to either because of disease/medications/or failure of an infant to thrive.

My accomplishment with my kid has been raising a kind, decent human being that is aware of other people's feelings.
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tallahasseedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 08:03 PM
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23. One more thing and I will shut up!!!
I would never discount any mother who was unable to, could not for any reason, or did not want to breastfeed. I was raised by a single mom who had to put me in daycare at the age of 2 weeks so she could pay our bills. It is a personal choice.
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medeak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 08:07 PM
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24. and you grew up to have a PHd
what a wonderful Mom you must have had!
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 06:56 PM
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7. Wrong spot
Edited on Tue Jun-07-05 06:57 PM by Misunderestimator
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:10 PM
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9. I loved breastfeeding my baby
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BellaLuna Donating Member (215 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:52 PM
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19. How sad.. Men have so objectified the breast
Edited on Tue Jun-07-05 07:52 PM by BellaLuna
that we have to hide them even when performing its natural function and use crap like this.


:eyes:
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jayctravis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-05 07:55 PM
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21. Nothing wrong with that device.
It's the same exact position one would typically hold an infant to feed with a bottle, but allows both hands free to support the child.
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