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undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-13-05 05:20 PM
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No more denial,cowardice,corruption for "Friends"
When people who are told about a molester or abuser or rapist, and they "ignore pedophilia rape or abuse to avoid upsetting family,to "preserve a friendship or because so and so has alot of money or is poplular...I hate them for that cowardice in the name of preservation of a "Friendship".Friends that molest kids or rape can crush a persons soul for life.NO MORE SECRETS..

Women that stay with men who molest kids and tell themselves lies to keep the relationship are ENABLERS to abusers.. they also are guilty of harming kids sadly too often it's THEIR OWN KIDS and it is more common of a problem in this country than you think.

When people are coerced into accepting money from a perpetrator to avoid going to court this is shame and fear talking to save a perpetrator...When a person who is wealthy has PAID people to SHUT UP and keep it out of court... and a old boy buddy criminal goes free because of their fans and a society that has a blind desire to believe bad is good this is corruption.

Too often humanity lets molesters get away with it and still families that have molester family members,or Friends go into denial about what their"buddies" do to kids,all to avoid upsetting things and shaming the family.or some other such enabling rationalizing bullshit that saves a perpetrators evil ass ..While it BETRAYS and shames a victim and hurts them worse. Too often bribes and denial are accepted,lies are tolerated and shit is done in secret that is WRONG all behind closed doors.

And this is infecting so much of family dynamics is sick America..

Because of the traumas and perpetrator excusing in America I didn't have any reason to believe Michael Jackson would be convicted. America is too damn ambivalent over child abuse,too conflicted over molestation to make it a serious cultural issue..Because too many people are too cowardly and selfish or traumatized themselves to admit even to themselves that THEIR brothers, uncles, cousins,older kids, husbands wives ARE molesters HURTING kids for kicks..It continues and the betrayal goes on and everyone plays make believe and lives are ruined.

I hate this bully loving society this'old boy club' mentality.. I see the stunning denial in our culture of the evil people do to the weakest of our society, the relentless divided toothless ambivalent cowardice that so many people display in America makes me SICK inside..I know too well how people are quick to minimize and dismiss victims of crimes like rape or molestation,and make them suffer and be shamed more to get a perp off the street.I see how our culture tolerates a perp offering a bribe to a victim to"make it all go away" and if the scared victim takes it people are all too eager to believe the whole issue just disappears as if magic because the almighty court says so and the victim too the bribe nothing to see herre..Yet the victims suffer...suffer and suffer and ignorant assholes say get over it already..How much trauma does it take until mankind commits anthrosuicide? Because that is what is happening..We sit by as laws that hurt people are passed,we say torture is OK for those"other people over there". All the self absorbed denial and wishy washy excuses...People are cowards or bullies when there is any discussion on abuse of power..inequality and things like that when victims complain of injustice..people shoot the messenger rather than BE RESPONSIBLE..Society waffles on the most important life or death issues and situations like rape,molestation and torture whether it happens overseas ,in church,in school at home they are COWARDS morally.... America is full of a bunch of moral relativists and they have no sanity or perspective or empathy when it comes to human rights...

I hate it all.And for you people that are made uncomfortable and wish I'd go away..and quit harping on this abuse of people problem I will NOT get over it.

For instance When 1 in 3 women are raped before age 18 Any person who thinks women blow the problem of rape,patriarchy,or abuse out of proportion can kiss my ass... I think THEY and their selfish insensitive denial and refusal to acknowledge a voice and real situation of a victim in pain and they Minimize it,or shame them for being hurt ...These bully people are part of the problem.

No more Denial, No more secrets,
No more avoidance,No more ambivalence
No more bribed silence,No more turning away.





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