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What exactly constitutes family morals? By that, I mean what is a clear cut list of attributes, that describes point by point, what constitutes morals and family values.
Why am I asking? Because it seems the neo-cons have appointed themselves the guardians and spokespeople for family values. The problem I have, is that every time I ask that particular question to a Conservative, I have never received a satisfactory, or even a complete answer. What I generally get in response, is a long winded homophobic rant, about how gays are destroying our country and family structure, how gays are evil people that are damned and going to hell because the bible says so, or how gays are hiding in the shadows and trying to kidnap our children and turn them into gays. As Al Franken says---"oyyyyy":eyes:
The Liberals I have posed the question to, have usually never disappointed, and give very well thought out answers. Among the points I have received in the past, are:
**Taking responsibility for your own children. This means do not blame the teacher or the school if your child is bringing home some "F's" on their report card, but investigate, and try to get to the root of any problems they may be having. In other words, don't expect teachers to be underpaid babysitters for your children at school, show them yourselves what is expected of them, and how to achieve it.
**Don't use athletes, or actors as role models. It sounds funny, but their are a lot of families that do just that. Use people that know the family members personally, that everyone respects and admires instead.
**Realize that everyone, no matter who, at some point in their lives needs a helping hand. You are not a "sap" for extending out a helping hand to someone in need, nor is it a sign on weakness for needing it.
**Turn off the TV.
I would sincerely enjoy hearing some responses from fellow DUers on this subject. As experience has shown, I am sure the responses (if any) this gets will be clear cut, and insightful.
Thanks...
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