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Wed Sep-07-05 04:00 PM
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my confrontation with a co-worker today. I am still shaking |
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I was making copies for my students the next hour of news articles about Katrina
another teacher was in and he asked me.
"do you think those that didn't leave NO were just waiting for their welfare check"
that was all it took.
I said the following:
"excuse me, I can't believe you would be that heartless"
he said again "well don't you think so"
I said "those people have no money, no cars, no gas, no credit cards and no where to go. Where do you suppose they go? I then said "did you know that some turned down help because they thought it would cost them and they couldn't afford it"
He said..No where did you hear that.
I replied "if you would bother to watch anything other than fox news you would have heard it on any other station.
I then said "I HOPE YOU ARE NOT TAKING THOSE FEELINGS INTO YOUR CLASSROOM. 80% OF OUR STUDENTS ARE IN THE WELFARE SYSTEM AND PROBABLY 15% HAVE FAMILY MEMEBERS MISSING IN NO"
he stuttered and stammered and I was so disgusted I just had to leave the copy room and go back to my room and cool down before students came in
jebus are some people so cruel.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:02 PM
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1. Good for you greenbriar |
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People like that need to be challenged. Give them something to think about.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:02 PM
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2. For being so angry, you did really well in your response to him. |
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Sometimes when I get that angry, I am nearly speechless. Good for you, and especially for reminding him of the economic makeup of the students in your school! Hopefully that will shut him up on the welfare check remarks, at least when he's around his students!
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:16 PM
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18. usually when I get that angry, I cry but not this time |
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and I didn't stutter or struggle to find the words!!!
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Thu Sep-08-05 12:14 AM
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I sometimes cry when I get extremely angry too. I'm not ashamed of crying, but when I do that at a moment of deep anger, I get kind of pissed at myself because I am rendered incapable of saying what I want to say. I really do admire your response to this person.
B-)
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:03 PM
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your ground very effusively. I think you should be proud of yourself.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:03 PM
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4. He sounds like a real freeper |
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Edited on Wed Sep-07-05 04:04 PM by DoYouEverWonder
this event sure has brought the best and the worst in people.
On the freeper boards, before the storm they were saying things like 'Let them drown'.
By there deeds you shall know them.
Let me guess, this guy is against abortion and gay rights too?
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:06 PM
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he is a sean hannity wanna be,
I am going to start calling him
sean jr.
HAD i Thought of it, I wish I had said
"if welfare people bother you so bad, you need to find a different building to teach in.
see when I was in college, we had a medical card and used food stamps for a while.
I have been there!!!
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:05 PM
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6. Good for you............... n/t |
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:06 PM
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8. Thank you for standing up to this idiot! |
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:08 PM
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:applause: We all need to confront bigotry and heartless behavior. I'm firing back at anyone who even hints at reich wing talking points.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:08 PM
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It's time to tell them all to get their heads out of the sand and LOOK at what this country has become. If we don't tell them, they will never know.
Maybe your co-worker will read a newspaper or watch a real news report due to what you said.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:09 PM
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12. You did a good job. Thank you. |
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Edited on Wed Sep-07-05 04:10 PM by cat_girl25
Some people just don't think. Me and my immediate family members are not in the situation that most of the low income people in MOLA, MS and AL are but I do have a lot of cousins and other family members that are so broke that if that had happened here they couldn't afford to leave. I know it. I don't understand why some people don't realize that a lot of people are very poor in this country.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:10 PM
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13. I can't believe he as a teacher (for poor) is actually a teaching them |
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Edited on Wed Sep-07-05 04:21 PM by Rainscents
You remind him... I guess he like governments checks he is receiving evey other week! Tell him, if we didn't have poor people, he would be looking for job at private school in rich school area, which I doubt he will be qualified to teach since he not rich!
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:10 PM
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14. Record him. Get him fired. |
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No one has privacy rights where children are threatened in the USA anymore. Minidisks have digital quality and sell for $40-100.
Get him fired and save the next generation and let this "teacher" know what it is like to wait for welfare.
Don't regret just get him. It is for the children.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:11 PM
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15. If you teach students whose families are on welfare. I feel you should |
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contact the principal about what this man said. He is by no means acting on those kids best interest.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:13 PM
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17. we do our economic background is 80% free and reduced meals |
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trouble is,
I have no idea if he takes it into his classes.
I have never witnessed his "teaching"
and this was in the break room
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:11 PM
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16. Bam!!! Nicely stated!! |
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:18 PM
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19. Nobody that heartless should be a teacher |
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if he's a nobody get his ass fired.
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Wed Sep-07-05 10:59 PM
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36. he is the baseball coach |
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and a suck up
admin loves him
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:19 PM
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20. you did well, you didn't hit him. I feel bad for all of you that have |
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these asshat coworkers, it must make the day a little more difficult.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:20 PM
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21. I guess he was expecting "ha ha"... |
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... like "ha ha" do you think the jews heading to the camps are lending each other money...ha ha .
the lighter side of hate.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:23 PM
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24. that was exactly what he wanted |
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I couldn't explain it, but that is what he wsas going for
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:36 PM
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29. Sure. He was unsure if his hatred was 'ok' and wanted your validation. |
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Thank you for slapping his happy ass down.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:21 PM
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22. They are bullies, keep kicking them in their balls! |
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:25 PM
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25. Well done! The expression of class anger... |
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is often the first step in the development of a genuine radical consciousness, but it sounds as if you're already there: the personal truly is political.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:29 PM
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26. We must all take our turns educated the brain dead. You did well. N/T |
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:35 PM
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27. Excellent retort. Buy yourself an ice cream tonight, you did very well. |
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I hope that jerk is ashamed of himself. I doubt it, but I still hope his conscience gives him a hard time.
Waiting for a welfare check??? :wtf:
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:35 PM
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It will get easier the next time. Always remember that you are right. The freeper is to be pitied that he is always wrong. I love to end such conversations with something like, "It must be terrible for you to be wrong all the time."
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:38 PM
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30. "that was all it took." |
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Thats all it should have taken. Good job. Heartless bastards. Sounds like a Limpballs dittohead.
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:41 PM
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This person? sees s sea of black faces and he assumes that they are all on welfare? My bet is that the majority of those too poor to leave were the WORKING POOR, something the freepers don't want to admit that their beloved leaders are creating in droves.
The other posters have it right, this man? should not be teaching!
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:43 PM
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Wed Sep-07-05 04:56 PM
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33. they do it so they dont have to feel. they do it so they dont have to |
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own the horror they contributed to.
as i am crying my eyes out once again for these people, feeling their pain and sorrow, watching oprah
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Wed Sep-07-05 05:08 PM
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34. Good job. You did it with class. Something he apparently lacks. |
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Wed Sep-07-05 07:18 PM
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it took great restraint!
:)
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:17 PM
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38. I will probably be called in to admin tomorrow |
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he is their golden child and the baseball coach.
to cover my ass, I told one of the admin and she was pissed that he made those comments
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:27 PM
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we know who he voted for.
this assist princ is awesome. Let me put up all kinds of Kerry posters last year before the election.
I do teach Social Studies!
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:17 PM
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37. You stood up for your convictions. |
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So now that freeper knows you are a force to be reckoned with.
:thumbsup:
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:26 PM
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39. Thanks for having courage to stare hate and racism in the face! |
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:28 PM
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41. Ask him to do a little school project and see what happens |
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Ask him to do this.
1. Turn off the lights in the classroom and close all windows. 2. Announce that there will be no lunch and no water. Take all food and put in front of classroom. 3. Say that you are going to come back with food and water and not return for a few hours.
If there is a pool, do the same thing and have the kids stand in water nearly over their heads.
I know. This would not work, but simulating for just an hour the conditions these people have been subjected to for a week might do some good.
As for the Freeper twit, there is nothing you can do with someone like that. Ignore that person at all costs.
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:31 PM
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42. I'm glad you stood up for yourself |
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My mom has been toting the same lines, all the while yelling, "It's the truth, isn't it?" x(
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:45 PM
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43. only when and or if it ever affects them will they |
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realize how horrible they are
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:47 PM
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I respect my mom but I sure don't respect her political opinions.
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Wed Sep-07-05 11:52 PM
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And watch in 2008 the republicans who are now saying crap like that will come out and try to be "compassionate" towards poorer folks. UGH!
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Thu Sep-08-05 12:12 AM
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46. That sounds like some of the people at the college I attend. |
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There are some really really cold hearted people in this world.
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Thu Sep-08-05 12:20 AM
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48. you were much more restrained and civil than I would have been |
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My response would have been YOU'RE A SICK, RACIST, UNFEELING FUCKING ASSHOLE" and it would have been accompanied by a hard kick in the shin.
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