Binka Is In The House.....Bone Tired.....Depressed.....But Back

[Binka]

I made it home from Germany. Ben is at Bethesda. I was being driven to the airport when I saw his plane in the air from Rammstein. My driver got the word that Ben was in the air and we looked to the horizon and saw his plane! We both said "Yes."

Too much to talk about now. It is almost 2 AM am here and I am tired and emotionally wrecked. I will write about my journey and visit tomorrow. Thank you DU for all the love and support.

Ben is blown to shit but he is alive and kicking. I'm going to bed. Love and hugs to all the DU angels that kept my child alive. You guys have no idea YET you saved his life! :hug: :loveya:

[stevedeshazer]

1. Welcome home

Great to hear. :)

Pleasant dreams, get some rest.

[Karenina]

145. Binka is in da HAUS!!!

Binka has posted photos in this thread:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=102x1857646

[Karenina]

146. Kick for TODAY'S pix!

Ben sure is a LOOKER!!! :blush:

[Binka]

147. Thanks SweetHeart I Added Callie's PIX To The Thread

Gotta show off all the clan! Ben is depressed this morning. I just spoke with him. He is beginning to realize how badly he was hurt. :cry: My poor child. :cry:

[thinkingwoman]

2. Welcome back Binka

Get some rest. May your son heal quickly and be home soon.

My prayers and thoughts remain with you and your family.

[Sydnie]

3. Welcome home! Great news that Ben is on the mend!

Rest, then tell us everything!

:hi: to Ray for being such a good communicator and :hi: to Peyton too!

:grouphug:

[Binka]

11. Ray had the house IMMACULATE when I got here

Scrubbed to the bone. God I love that man!!

[Sydnie]

20. Do you do loaners?

:rofl: You gotta love a man like that!

[Dinger]

84. Good To Hear You Are All Back

I sure am thinking about you and praying for you too! :grouphug:

[Nickster]

4. All the best to Ben. I'm sure he'll be just fine and all the best to you

as well Binka. Rest now, you'll need your strength.

[Skidmore]

Glad you are back and that you still have your Ben.

Rest for now.

[stepnw1f]

5. Here's a Hug Ma'am

:hug:

[Catherine Vincent]

6. Glad you made it home safe Binka.

Am waiting on your report of your son.

[McKenzie]

7. Great news Binka...sleep well and love to Ben n/t

[spooked]

8. Wow, I can't believe I kicked your old message at the exact SAME MINUTE

you started this thread! Let us know how your son is when you have had a chnace to rest...I bet he's so glad to be out of there!!

Rest Well!

[DemonFighterLives]

9. Time for some R & R

Welcome home!
:grouphug:

[ClayZ]

10. THANK GOODNES!

Be Good to yourselves! CHOCOLATE HELPS! We are so glad to hear this!
SPEEDY RECOVERY to BEN!

O8) O8) O8) O8) :bounce: O8) O8) O8) O8) O8)

[roguevalley]

12. Welcome back, honey. This is the lowest day. They will only get

better now. God bless you and yours,

RV, sending love and healing vibes from Alaska

[Binka]

23. Oh RV Ben Loved Your Dog!

Ray printed out the candle vigil thread for me to read to Ben and when he saw your dog he just burst into tears. He loved your baby!! He made me promise to tell you how much that dog lifted his spirit.

[roguevalley]

28. Oh god. You made my day. That is my Tippy. He sits up like that

and flaps his arms to say hello. He is almost like my son. I am delighted that he was lifted by my baby. Take care, honey. Tell him I am delighted.

[Botany]

13. good news

We at DU know that love of troops & country are more complex
then a yellow ribbon and talking points.

best to you and your family!

Ben :patriot:

[AirmensMom]

14. Welcome back, Binka!

So glad you're back! :hug:

[cry baby]

15. looking forward to hearing the story, but glad you can sleep well

tonight!

[catmandu57]

16. Give Ben some credit

we just assisted, he did the hard work. He sounds like a great kid Binka, I know he has a long way to go yet, but I'm confident of his healing power, all the same I'll keep sending karmic energy his way.

[Binka]

39. Yes I Know Ben Is The Shit!

But he kept telling me that ANGELS were with him. The guy in front of him lost a leg and took shrapnel to the head (bad news and he is pretty fucked) and the guy to his left died on the spot.

He is not a GOD kind of guy but he told me over and over that "THE ANGELS" were with him. I am tired and a little fucked up but I believe the power of light from DU saved his life.

We saved him. We saved him. We saved him. I will write the incredible story tomorrow. His doctors can not believe he is still here. The extent of his injuries should have killed him.

So over and out on DU tonight for me but trust me when I say....Ben is here because DU loved him through the madness.

[knitter4democracy]

99. I'm sure they were.

There's more to heaven and earth than is dreamt of in our philosophy. I really believe that.

Binka, I have had others praying for him, too. I have been so worried about him, and I know everyone here has, too. I really hope and pray he'll be strong and healthy soon.

You are one amazing mama! You deserve a perfectly clean house and some really, really good chocolate. ;)

[lostnfound]

109. Have to say, I'm crying to hear of it.

I know you hardly at all but really, reading your words and pictures, I have to say also I would have been broken-hearted if ...

Well, just 'if'. That's all.

I can't believe how fast it happened, only over there for a few weeks, and I remember your panicked 'my baby is going over to that hellhole' kind of post.

He's your son, Binka. And a bit of him is every mother's son.

My four-year old's smiling face is on the wall above this computer screen.

God bless whatever angels let Ben live through this.

[leftchick]

118. I am out of town Binka

but check in when I can to see how Ben and your family are doing. I am so happy to hear he is back in the states. OMG... He does indeed have angels!
Love , hugs and peace to you all...
lc

:hug: :loveya:

[madmax]

17. Welcome back, Binka!!!!

So glad you and Ben are back. One day at a time...

Love and the very best of everything to you and Ben. :hug:

[BrklynLiberal]

18. Welcome home Binka So happy that Ben is back stateside.

Sleep well..sweet dreams.
:hi: :grouphug:

[Beam Me Up]

19. Happy tears. Welcome back!

:cry: :patriot:

[Lefta Dissenter]

21. Our best to you, Binka, your son, and your entire family

Mr. Dissenter, a Vietnam vet, is sending his support and warm, healing thoughts, as well. When I told him about your Ben, he said that he will wish for the very best for Ben's healing, and hope that he'll be recovered enough to be whole, but not enough to be sent back.

Get some desperately-needed rest, and don't forget to take care of yourself as you face this challenge.

:hug:

[annabanana]

22. SO glad you are both back home...

I hope his injuries aren't too debilitating, but I know that having him home alive is the most important thing..

Sent with prayers for a good recovery..

[tandot]

24. Our thoughts are with Ben and you.

It is great to hear that he is "alive and kicking" ... the rest will fall in place.

We will continue to keep Ben and you in our thoughts and wish him a speedy recovery!

:grouphug:

[MasonJar]

25. Yes! Congratulations!

[mzmolly]

26. Welcome back.

Peace and healing to you and Ben.

[cal04]

27. Welcome home Binka

and Ben. My thoughts and prayers are with you


:hug:

[Mnemosyne]

29. Thank God. Now you can get some rest Binka

:hug:

Ben shall remain in my prayers. Shalom.

[madrchsod]

30. go to sleep!

we`ll see ya in the morning or what ever time it is..

[SalmonChantedEvening]

47. amen.

Rest Binka you've been through a lot.

:loveya: :hug:

[newspeak]

31. happy and relieved to hear from you

Give our best to Ben. If you need anything, just holler. Ever want to vacation in "sin city" let me know, be glad to put you all up. Our thoughts continue to be with Ben and with you and your family.

[MuseRider]

32. Sending good wishes

and healing thoughts to you all.

You must be dead tired. Rest and stay healthy yourself. :hug:

[Maat]

33. Your son is in our prayers!

Healing, comforting energy sent your way!

[ewagner]

34. Welcome home Binka

(((((((hugs))))) :loveya:

[Ripley]

35. Sleep well Bink.

He's outta that shit hole anyway. Sending all good waves of energy to repair his body and head! And for you too!

[Binka]

Ahh Shit Ripley I Love You!

Hugs and a big SMOOCH!

[wellstone dem]

36. Welcome back

I'm so glad you and Ben are home. I will continue to say prayers for a complete recovery.

Also, Ben, Thank you for your service to our country.

[latebloomer]

37. Yep, time to take care of mama!!

You have been through such an ordeal-- it takes a toll--rest and be kind to yourself.

Love and healing light to you, Ben and the whole family!!

:grouphug:

[wellstone_democrat]

38. First time I've prayed in years to tell the truth

But I did and prayed hard and whether that made a difference or not, I'm so delighted to hear the news. Ray was a peach to keep us up to date on things. I went to the "virtual" candle page and randomly clicking on candles that night I found lots to "Ben" for health and hope.

Thank you for allowing us to help in our small ways and we are all so happy that it was a comfort to you, Ben and the rest of the family.

We will keep the candles lit at our house for Ben, his unit and all the men and women trapped over there until they are all home.

our best wishes to you all,
W_D

[opihimoimoi]

40. Good News is always a JOY... Welcome home and well wishes continue...

[me b zola]

41. Thanks for the update, Binka

Prayer candle #2 is burning now on the mantle. As always, my best thoughts & prayers for Ben, you, and your entire family. :grouphug:

[villager]

42. My God. First I'd heard of your situation. Welcome back.

Best, best, best to you and Ben.... from one parent to another...

[nickyt]

43. Glorious news. Can't wait to hear all about it tomorrow. Sweet dreams. nt

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

44. All my love to you and Ben.... (nt)

[brook]

45. Thanks for letting us know...

the latest news. You & your family continue to be held in my thoughts.

:hug:

[lildreamer316]

46. Blessed be.

Get some rest. Talk to you tomorrow.....

[Olney Blue]

48. Binka, greetings from Maryland.

Please PM me if there is anything I can do for Ben while he is here in Bethesda.

Glad you both are back home.

[wovenpaint]

49. More great news!

I'm glad to hear that things are improving!
AND-I just found out that my friend's son is HOME from Iraq also-Praying for Ben to get well soon and come back home and for my friend's son to stay home! Sending healing prayers out now.....

[ismnotwasm]

50. Welcome home

Hope you're able to rest
Best wishes for a speedy recovery

[abbeyco]

51. Ben came home alive

That is the absolute best I can say about your situation.

I am so sorry your family had to go through this - all in the the name of the fake war we are fighting.

My prayers, thoughts, and wishes go out to you and your family as you being the recovery process. I sincerely hope Ben mends well from his injuries and that your family recovers from the trauma of all of this.

Take care and be well, my heart is with you.

Abbey :grouphug:

[MissWaverly]

52. Hang in there!

Sending good thoughts and prayers your way.
and 1 of my drawings

[eleny]

53. Welcome home Binka

My thoughts continue to be with you.

[meganmonkey]

54. Welcome home, Binka

:hug:

My prayers continue to go out to your family. May you all heal quickly!

[i miss america]

55. Stay strong. Virtual hugs and lots of warm wishes aimed your way.

[fooj]

56. I'll light a candle every evening for Ben until he's better.

I'm so glad that you were able to go to him! ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

Now- get some rest, ok?

Peace.:hug:

[HeeBGBz]

57. ((((Binka))))

Sleep well. I'm glad your son is back over here. Will be anxious to hear how he's doing. Prayers still coming for you, Ben and your family.

[libnnc]

58. Welcome home Binka

Got a candle lit and some incense burning for both you and Ben.

:hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug:

Get some well deserved rest.

[graywarrior]

59. Welcome home.

Good vibes headed your way.

[lavendermist]

107. GW, I smile every time I see your....

duck, taped.:)

[graywarrior]

110. Glad to be of service.

[Wheezy]

60. Hang in there, Binka. n/t

[pacalo]

61. Thanks for the news & bless you all, Binka.

:hug: for Binka & Ben

[nomatrix]

62. All the DU angels

For Binka and Ben


http://www.andiesisle.com/Calling_All_Angels.html
to listen with lyrics

Calling All Angels, Calling All Angels
Walk me through this one; don’t leave me alone
Calling all angels –calling all angels
We’re trying, we’re hoping
We’re loving and we’re hurting
We’r crying and we’re calling
Cause we’re not sure how this goes

[Pool Hall Ace]

63. Wow, you must be exhausted.

Get some rest. Continued good thoughts for you and Ben. :grouphug:

[demobabe]

64. Amazing, Binka...

Sending hopes for continued healing for all you guys... I can't imagine everything you must be feeling right about now. Get some rest - we're all pulling for Ben!

[babylonsister]

65. Binka, can we get an address to send get-well cards to Ben?

I'm so glad you got to see Ben, Binka, and I've been looking for a post from you!
Hugs and rest, and if there's anything we can do, we're here for you!

[The Backlash Cometh]

66. We love you Binka. And by, extension, Ben too.

[PA Democrat]

67. Welcome home to you and Ben, Binka!

Tell Ben our thoughts and prayers remain with him throughout his recovery.

And you must take care of yourself, Binka! I can't imagine the physical and emotional exhaustion you have experienced.

[soup]

68. Good to see you again.

Please thank Ray for keeping us updated. Your family is in our hearts and we're all very concerned about Ben. It meant the world to have Ray share what was happening with us.

Continuing to send best wishes for Ben's healing.

Get a good night's sleep, then we want to hear EVERYTHING. :hug:

[helderheid]

69. Glad you're back - get some much needed rest!

[Pharaoh]

70. God love ya Binka!

welcome home!


:dem: :dem: :dem:

[fight4my3sons]

71. I've just checked back in after being away...

and had not heard of your ordeal before this. I'm so very happy your son is alive. I'll be keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. From one parent to another...

[NoBushSpokenHere]

72. Glad he is alive and kicking ......hope all continues well

you, and other families so horribly afflicted with this damn war will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

[DistressedAmerican]

73. FANTASTIC!!!

So glad to hear it! Much easier from here on out I am sure. Let me know if you need anything!

:pals:

[spooky3]

74. please don't give up--my best to you and your son

[MissB]

75. I'm so glad he's back in the US

and I hope he is here to stay. Here's hoping that his recovery goes smoothly.

Get some rest. :hug:

[cyberpj]

76. Many hugs and prayers for you and yours. Welcome home.

:hug:

[Tsiyu]

77. Sweet and sad

but your baby is alive!

Hang in there, Mama. :hug:

[rasputin1952]

78. This is great news....May his recovery be swift and painless...

O8)

[Greybnk48]

79. Welcome home to you both!! n/t

[qanda]

80. Get some rest

I'm sure you need it, but you definitely deserve it. Ben is lucky to have you as his mother.

[progressivebydesign]

81. Glad that you're home and Ben is at Bethesda. Sleep well. n/t

[proud patriot]

82. I'm here for you

:hug:

[blue neen]

83. Welcome home to you and Ben.

The DU light will keep shining on your family as you go through the physical and emotional healing process.

I got a new supply of candles and will burn one every night.

Peace.

[NMDemDist2]

85. glad you're both back. Get some rest and tell us the news when you

can

:hug:

[EFerrari]

86. Dear Binka

Arms around you and Ben.

B.

[progressoid]

87. Welcome HomeS

Your Home (and DU!)

[Raksha]

88. Get some rest, Binka!

God bless you and Ben and the rest of your family.

[Chi-Town Exile]

89. God Bless You and Your Family nt

[ngGale]

90. More tears of joy...

:cry: Get some rest, Binka.O8)

:grouphug:

Thank you, Ben...:patriot:

[Historic NY]

91. Great news to hear he is back on US soil......you too.......

now get some rest both you & Ben will have long days ahead.

[fleabert]

92. welcome home!

i do believe this community has saved lives, it saved my sanity! (and routinely lifts my spirits)

:hug:

[Jersey Devil]

93. Binka, our prayers are with you and Ben and your family

I am so happy that Ben is home for you to hold again. :-)

[Daphne08]

94. Welcome Home, Binka.

We're continuing to say prayers for Ben.

:hug:

[bigbrother05]

95. Nothing in this world is stronger than a

Mothers love, and of course all the DU's prayers. Take care and welcome home, he's in good hands.

[Neshanic]

100. Thoughts and prayers to you and your son.

[livvy]

96. Welcome home! I'm so glad to hear Ben is healing.

Reading this thread made me all teary-eyed. I'm so relieved for you and your family, especially Ben. I have a good supply of candles, and will keep one burning for all of you, and all of those yet waiting to come home where they belong, and for the Iraqi people, too.
Get some rest and thanks for the update. Heal swiftly, Ben!
Here's another cute dog pic for you...big, but I think he's cute!


edit: Whoa...big pic...sorry, don't know how to make it smaller!

[malmapus]

97. Keep strong Binka, your family will come through

Continued thoughts for Ben's recovery.

[Eurobabe]

98. What a horrible ordeal for you all to go through

Let the truth come out. Prayers for your son, that he heals, and for you too Mom!

[lonestarnot]

101. Wooooodamnhooo Binka! So glad you are back!

Hang in there Ben! We are all pulling for you!

[IN-dem]

102. Is there any way we can send Ben cards?

Or maybe books? Or something he likes to eat or entertainment while he is recuperating. Or is it to soon yet?

[OhioChick]

103. Welcome Home!

:grouphug:

[Sabriel]

104. We're all thinking of you here, Binka

Adults and children alike.

[WillyT]

105. Welcome Home To Both You And Ben !!!

May you and your family know peace from now on.

:grouphug:

[lavendermist]

106. Binka, Ben, Ray and Peyton...

Like "Ripples" in the water, nothing affects one part of the whole that doesn't affect the rest. Love to the whole family. :grouphug:

Ben, severe injuries or death happened right next to you, yet you were spared. Be sad and grieve, be angry and yell, feel what you need to feel in order to heal. But know deep down inside yourself there is a special place in the hearts of those who love you and a special place for you in this world.

B

[deadparrot]

108. Hope you got some rest, Binka...

I'm so glad to hear that Ben's doing okay. Thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery and an honorable discharge.

[FreedomAngel82]

111. I'm so glad he's okay

:hug: Get tons of rest all of you.

[FizzFuzz]

112. Wonderful! Continuing to send prayers.

Peace, Courage, Healing, Wisdom, Cooperation

[spuddonna]

113. Binka, we're so happy!

We'll keep praying for a super-fast, and as painless as possible recovery for Ben! Hmm, well, maybe a really well-timed, painless recovery that ends up with the war ending at the same time that he recovers! lol Yeah, I like that idea better!

The love you feel for your beautiful kids is so strong, Binka! How could we not love them, too! :)

Love, hugs and kisses to all of you!! :hug:

[Fla Dem]

114. Welcome Home to Binka and Ben......take care, both of you. n/t

[uppityperson]

115. Good to hear, welcome back home Binka and Ben.

Glad Ben is alive and kicking. Hang in there.

[Gelliebeans]

116. Welcome Back

We will wait to hear from you. Take Care :hug:

[Evergreen Emerald]

117. I am so glad he is going to be ok...

I can only imagine how hard this must be for you. My thoughts are with you and your family.

[merh]

119. Glad to hear that Ben is on the mend.

And I do not doubt for one minute what you have said about the healing powers of the love of DU.

I have been touched by it too.

You and Ben and Ray and Peyton are all in my prayers. (If you do loan out Ray, please put me on the list. He sounds like an angel! :-)

Cyber hugs and postive energies and good thoughts and love being sent your way. ((((((((((Binka, Ben, Ray, Peyton)))))))))))))))))))

:hug: :grouphug: :loveya:

[Binka]

120. Sorry Guys Still Can't Post The Real Shit

I have tried several times to write my story and to get it right for Ben and the troops but I can't. It is too Raw and too Painful. The flight was very hard on Ben. He had surgery just hours after arriving at Bethesda. Stable now but very sore he sends his love to his Moms wacky friends. Thank you all my fellow DU brothers and sisters.

[wellstone_democrat]

121. We will be here when you are ready and if you are ready

Whatever *you* need to share. Right now it *is* about you--and Ben, and Ray, and Peyton. We understand.

I'm happy to hear he is in the states and you know the love, candles, prayers, wishes, and whatever else our merry band of diverse characters can come up with that sends something "good" his way will continue to flow towards you all.

[Binka]

122. I Want To Tell You And I Am Trying

But I get about ten words into the post and I just fall apart. And I want to tell everyone about Nate his roomie with the sliced throat who saw four of his buddies killed and I keep crying and I can't type.

OK Binka..hugging self and going to bed...now is not the time. I'll get this story out. I wanted to tonight but it is not the time.

[Blue Diadem]

124. Hugs for you Binka..both you and Ben have been through so much

Take care of yourself and get some rest. The shock from what happened to Ben and hearing what happened to them all must be overwhelming. Just know that we're all here for you whenever you're ready to talk about it.

Sending continued good wishes for a full recovery to Ben and for peace for both of you.

:grouphug:

[texpatriot2004]

130. My love to you, your Ben, your family and to his friends.

:cry:

[Viva_La_Revolution]

123. The hard part is over...

now that you know he'll be OK.

Take your time - we can wait.

:hug: and kisses

[roguevalley]

126. take your time, darling. you have all been through hell. send your

boy our love. :hug:

[BlueIris]

129. Hi, Binka and Ben!

The "wacky friends" love you, too.

[Ilsa]

125. I missed this post yesterday when I looked for it...

Glad you made it home safely and that Ben has made it to Bethesda. I hope you can rest now for a bit and recover some yourself. I bet Ben does great at Bethesda. :grouphug:

[flyarm]

127. bless bless bless BEN..and may his angels keep fighting with him

throughout recovery..and may you get some rest BINKA...and prayers from this du'er until he is fully recovered...and i will keep a candle lit for your Ben...fly

[in_cog_ni_to]

128. Hugs to you Binka!

:hug: and one for Ben :hug:. What a relief to know he's going to be alright. :hug:

[fortyfeetunder]

131. Binka, sending good vibes and a hug

Glad to know Ben is back in the states. I hope you are resting a bit easier. May he not return to that place.

:hug:

[kick_them_hard]

132. Welcome home Binka and

Ben! Someone needs to start up a get well card for Ben on DU. Thats the ticket!~~ :headbang:

[peacefreak]

133. My heart goes out to you & Ben.

He has once again put a face to this awful war. Let him know that he & his comrades are every mother's sons & daughters. May he mend well. May you rest well. Sending loving energy.

[G_j]

134. Welcome Home

the brightest of hopes and blessings to Ben and family!

[Spike from MN]

135. Welcome back! Good to hear that Ben is on US soil again.

I wish him and all of his fellow soldiers a speedy recovery. Give him my best and make sure to let him know that DUers are pulling for him.

Ben, thank you for serving the country. I'm just sorry that your pResident isn't serving you as well as you are serving the country.

[Binka]

136. Thank You EVERY BODY!

I'm trying to rest but my mind won't stop and my heart is thumping and I miss him something fierce. I am going to fly to CA when they transfer him to Balboa. I think he will be at Bethesda for a couple of weeks. More later my brain is fried and I have never been so sad in all my life.

[spooked]

139. Oh Dear,

if only all Americans could see what you have seen first-hand about the realities of war. Oh, the poor families left with that vacant chair...please know that we share a little of your heartbreak and hope your son will have bright and wonderful days ahead...once he passes through this darkness. Let us keep all of the families in our prayers.



THE VACANT CHAIR, Civil War melody, 1862

We shall meet, but we shall miss him
There will be one vacant chair
We shall linger to caress him
While we breathe our evening prayer;
When a year ago we gathered
Joy was in his mild blue eye,
But a golden chord is severed
And our hopes in ruin lie.

Chorus
We shall meet, but we shall miss him
There will be one vacant chair
We shall linger to caress him
While we breathe our evening prayer.

http://www.contemplator.com/america/vchair.html

[spuddonna]

143. Binka, go be with your family!

Rest, heal...

Go hug Peyton and Ray... try to get some rest...

We'll keep! :) lol

Get well, Ben! We love you guys!

[bleedingheart]

137. I am so happy he is back ...and in good hands...

I pray that he has a quick recovery.

[truebrit71]

138. Welcome back. Glad to hear that things are looking up.

You and your family are in my prayers.

[Maat]

140. Sending positive healing energy Ben's way ..

for the foreseeable future!

Ben - thank you so much for your service to this country!

I can be grateful for you doing your duty - even though I disagree with this horid administration's having sent you there in the first place.

Spirit:

Ben heals quickly and completely, and smoothly and without more trauma. His family is well and safe throughout the process. Thank You for this. And I release it into the Universe, into the Law, knowing that it is done!

And so it is! (Amen)

(Religious Science prayer)

[really annoyed]

141. Wonderful news!

:hug:

[ninkasi]

142. Love and healing to you and Ben...

From what you have said, his recovery is a miracle. He is truly his mother's son. Your love, and Ray's, and Peyton's, have carried him through. I only hope that we at DU helped, because please believe that there were thousands of prayers, sent to heaven and to all of the universe, to carry your much loved child through his ordeal.
When I read your first post, that he had been wounded, I cried for you. I am crying again now, but these are tears of happiness for you and your family. We love you.

[VolcanoJen]

144. Welcome Home, and thank you for keeping us up-to-date, Binka!

Your family remains in all of our thoughts.