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Mon Apr-19-04 09:21 AM
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My mother passed away this morning at 4:00 am PDT |
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On the way to the hospital and on the way home I heard Clocks by Coldplay. Now every time I hear that song I will think of my momma:cry:
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:22 AM
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May you keep only the good memories.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:22 AM
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2. ohh my god i am so sorry |
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let me know if there is any way i can help. my condolences to you. and hugs as well.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:22 AM
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I lost my mom over five years ago, and I still miss her every day.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:30 AM
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12. It does get easier though doesn't it? |
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Edited on Mon Apr-19-04 09:31 AM by bubblesby2002
My mom was so beautiful, so tall with red hair and long legs. Wish I had her legs.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:42 AM
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22. It does get easier... |
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Edited on Mon Apr-19-04 09:43 AM by YellowRubberDuckie
But it never goes away. I lost my dad about 8 years ago...and my sister about 4 years ago. It's difficult, but it gets easier, I promise. Because life has to go on, and just keep telling yourself that your mother would have wanted you to live your life. I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug: Duckie
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:56 AM
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Because she had a bad stroke it is probably for the best. She survived three years after the stroke and lately she just sort of slowly went away. I miss her so much already.
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Mon Apr-19-04 11:36 AM
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45. It Gets a Little Easier With Time |
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But there are times like birthdays and holidays when it's harder.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:47 PM
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but she will come to you in dreams while you sleep, in daydreams and at special times like holidays.
When we lose a beloved parent, we lose some of ourselves, our history since our parents knew us before we 'knew' ourselves. My mom passed almost 5 years ago and I still miss her immensely (she would have loved DU) and she 'comes' to me in little ways.
My heartfelt sympathy for your loss :hug:
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:24 AM
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5. Bless your heart......... |
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that's all I can think to say... bless you. And take very, very good tender loving care of yourself... and your family.
**tears***
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:25 AM
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7. My sincerest and deepest sympathy goes out to you |
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I lost my mother October 4, 1999. Life has not been the same since. My sympathies to you. I am so sorry.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:26 AM
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I know it's a trying time for you and your family. My prayers are with you.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:27 AM
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9. My sympathies and prayers for you and your family |
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:29 AM
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my sympathy on the loss of your Mother. my heart goes out to you.
if there is anything we can do... :hug:
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:30 AM
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11. Sorry to hear it bubblesby |
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:33 AM
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13. My heartfelt sympathy and condolences |
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I wish you strength and love in this difficult time. God bless.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:34 AM
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14. sympathy and prayers to you... |
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...I hope there are other loved ones and friends you can keep close right now...
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:34 AM
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15. ((((bubblesby2002)))) |
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My deepest sympathies to you.
It is a terrible thing when we lose our mothers. I do understand and you have all the hugs I can send you. I lost my mother in July of 1996. I do miss her every day.
:grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug:
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:34 AM
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16. My sympathies to you and your family bubblesby2002 |
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Take care of yourself and let the good memories you have of your mom wash over you and give you comfort and peace.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:36 AM
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I remember the day I lost my momma too. Hang in there. :hug: :cry: :hug:
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:36 AM
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{{{{{{{{{bubblesby2002}}}}}}}}}}}
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:37 AM
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20. What gem hath dropp'd and sparkles o'er his chain? |
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The tear most sacred, shed for other's pain, That starts at once -- bright -- pure -- from pity's mine, Already polish'd by the Hand Divine.
--Lord Byron
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:08 AM
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33. How'd you know that Lord Byron is one of my favorite poets |
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And I love that poem. Thankyou
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:17 AM
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The words just stuck me as prescient.
Much love and sympathy.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:39 AM
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21. My deepest sympathies. |
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I hope both my parents outlive me; I couldn't stand to lose either one. I can't begin to imagine what you're feeling right now.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:43 AM
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23. My sincere condolences. |
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:44 AM
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I can't believe that you mentioned the Coldplay song. The first time I heard it was the day a close friend of mine died unexpectedly, and every time I hear Clocks, I think of that day.
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:10 AM
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34. It is pretty music isn't it? |
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:46 AM
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26. My condolences on your loss. |
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I lost my dad last year, it is very painful. You have my deepest sympathies.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:47 AM
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27. You and your family have my sincere condolences. |
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:49 AM
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28. You have our sympathy. |
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I have lost both of my parents and know how you feel. Hang in there.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:49 AM
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29. My thoughts are with you and your family |
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I'm so sorry to hear this!
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:54 AM
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30. Please accept my deepest sympathies. |
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:56 AM
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32. My condelences to you and your family . |
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Love and light to you and your family.
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:28 AM
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38. I'm so sorry for your loss |
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Will say a prayer for you and yours. Take care of each other.
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:44 AM
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39. My deepest sympathies |
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My symphaties to you and your family.
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I had to tell you here too. :hug:
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:56 AM
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I see your hug and bid you two more:hug: :hug:
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Mon Apr-19-04 11:03 AM
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43. I lost my mom when I was 16...I know how hard it is. |
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Get the book, "Many Lives, Many Masters" It will change your life.
Remember...there is no death.
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Mon Apr-19-04 11:05 AM
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44. Losing one's momma can be excruciating.... |
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at any age.
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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Mon Apr-19-04 11:36 AM
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46. I am so very sorry. What a very bad day for you |
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I lost my Dad, so can sympathize, but know that this is fresh and raw and so painful. Stay with us, if you need to. Many of us have had similar experiences. We are always here and we care. Again, I am just so sorry. I am crying with you, and will be when I hear that song.:cry:
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Mon Apr-19-04 11:39 AM
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47. My condolences bubblesby2002 |
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Mon Apr-19-04 11:40 AM
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48. I'm so sorry...my deepest and most profound thoughts, prayers |
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condolences and sympathy are extended to you, your family and everyone who knew your mother. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
My condolences once again
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Mon Apr-19-04 11:43 AM
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I lost my dad almost two years ago. :loveya:
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Mon Apr-19-04 11:49 AM
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50. Thank you all so very much |
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It really hurts but you guys have all eased the pain a little bit. Again thank you.
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Mon Apr-19-04 12:15 PM
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52. I am very sorry for your loss, |
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I hope you have many plesant memories to call on.
They tell me it will get easier with time.
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Mon Apr-19-04 12:17 PM
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I lost my mother eight years ago.
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Mon Apr-19-04 12:20 PM
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for your loss.:hug: Don't be afraid to mourn. You are in my prayers Friend.
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Mon Apr-19-04 12:21 PM
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55. I'm so sorry for your loss |
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Mon Apr-19-04 12:26 PM
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56. I lost my Mom three years ago. |
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It hurts a little less now, but I don't miss her any less.
My sincere condolences.
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Mon Apr-19-04 02:36 PM
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57. so sad, so sorry, and thinking of you, bubblesby. n/t |
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Mon Apr-19-04 03:02 PM
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58. You're in my thoughts and prayers... |
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I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:
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Mon Apr-19-04 03:04 PM
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59. So sorry for you loss |
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Mon Apr-19-04 03:26 PM
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60. I'm so sorry, Bubblesby |
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There is nothing that can prepare you for the loss of a parent, even as an adult.
I know that people say that "time is the great healer," bla bla bla. In some respects, the grief is even worse than it was when I initially lost my mom. There are so many things I wish I could have shared with her.
I'm thinking of you, and sending peace and comfort.
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Mon Apr-19-04 03:28 PM
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62. I am so sorry for your loss |
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Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family ...
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Mon Apr-19-04 04:25 PM
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63. 3 years ago tomorrow, my own mom passed... |
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I know what you're going through. I send my deepest sympathies. Rely on the love of friends and family for now. As time passes, find the strength within yourself to carry on. It's there, I promise.
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Mon Apr-19-04 04:26 PM
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64. May she rest in peace. |
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65. So sorry. All condolences to you and your family n/t |
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Mon Apr-19-04 07:11 PM
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66. my heart goes out to you |
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Our hearts are all with you today to help bear your grief. I am thankful for your mother bringing you into the world. May peace be hers.
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Mon Apr-19-04 07:27 PM
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67. My Deepest Sympathies |
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Very sorry for you and your family. But, having a song to remember isn't a bad thing. The plant in my office reminds me of my dad every day. (I got it from his wake. I'm glad i took it.)
Take care. The Professor
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Mon Apr-19-04 07:37 PM
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68. I'm sorry, sweetie. This is such sad news. Know you are thought about |
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Mon Apr-19-04 08:03 PM
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69. You have my deepest sympathy on your loss, bubblesby2002 |
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71. I'm so sorry, bubblesby. |
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Hard thread to read. :hug:
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Mon Apr-19-04 08:10 PM
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72. my sympathies. and stay strong nt |
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Mon Apr-19-04 08:36 PM
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73. Bubbles... my sympathies. |
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I cannot imagine the grief through which you are going.
Just know, however, that you have our condolences.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:10 PM
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74. My deepest sympathies.... |
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I lost my mother 5 years ago and it still feels as if I saw her yesterday.
I know there are no words to ease your pain....
But as time moves forward, you will know that your mother has not left you...that your life is a living testament to her....and that she is part of you forever and always.....
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75. I'm very sorry for your loss. |
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:30 PM
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76. Nothing replaces your mother |
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I dread that day. My thoughts are with you! I lost my dad in '87. He walked on water. I grieved and the pain lessened. There will always be a missing piece there but it will get better. My advice is to talk about her alot. That helps.
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78. Been there, done that. Twice, in fact. |
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Best I say is, it gets easier to deal with as time passes. :pals:
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Mothers hold their child's hand for a little while. They hold their child's heart forever.
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Mon Apr-19-04 09:58 PM
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80. I'm so sorry, Bubblesby.... |
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I lost my mom New Year's Day. I miss her so much. It's so hard to believe she's gone. PM me if you need to talk.....
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:22 PM
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81. My heartfelt condolences. May she rest in God's embrace. |
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I lost my dad last year and I can empathize.
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So sorry for your loss please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family .
If tears Could Build a Stairway
They say memories are golden, Well, maybe that is true; I never wanted memories, I only wanted you.
A million times I needed you, A million times I cried; If love alone could have saved you, You never would have died. No farewell words were spoken No time to say goodbye You were gone before we knew it And only god knows why.
Our hearts still ache in sadness And secret tears still flow What it meant to lose you No one can ever know.
But now we know you want us To mourn for you no more To remember all the happy times Life still has more in store.
Since you’ll never be forgotten We pledge to you today A hallowed place within our hearts Is where you’ll always stay
If tears could build a stairway And heartache make a lane; I'd walk the path to heaven And bring you back again.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same; But as God calls us one by one, The chain will link again.
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:51 PM
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It is always tough to lose a parent. I hope that your pain will someday be replaced by good memories. Clocks is a beautiful song, it will probably always make you cry though.
I lost my dad in 1980, I was only 22. His favorite "song" still brings me to tears.
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Mon Apr-19-04 10:55 PM
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85. My most sincere sympathies. |
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I am so sorry. We, and I think I can speak for all DUers (even the freepers) are here for you if you need us.
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