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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 07:48 PM
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When you make a complete ass of yourself...
Edited on Fri Apr-23-04 07:50 PM by YellowRubberDuckie
And feel like a total bone head, how do you fix it? I mean, do you pretend nothing happened? Make people laugh? I'm only asking because I do it so often, and lose a bunch of friends in the process.
Duckie
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Catholic Sensation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 07:52 PM
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1. well when I did it recently to someone I apologized to her
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Lars39 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 07:53 PM
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2. An apology?
Depends on the seriousness of what you did. :shrug:
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k in IA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 07:53 PM
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3. apologize
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 07:55 PM
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4. How did you make an ass of yourself?
I mean, if they're true friends they should be able to understand if it wasn't a huge thing.

If it WAS a huge thing then by all means apologize immediately!
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mr_hat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 08:00 PM
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5. Don't think of it as losing friends. Think of it >
as confirming who your real friends are.
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wtmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 08:13 PM
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6. Forget about what other people think
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 08:16 PM
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7. Does this happen to you a lot?
Does it happen while you are under the influence of alcohol or drugs? Is it possible that there is a connection?

It used to happen to me a lot. Then I stopped drinking and remarkably, it hardly ever happens anymore!
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 08:28 PM
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9. I haven't drank since the beginning of the semester...
While I was on vacation.
Duckie
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Something Blue Donating Member (96 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 08:16 PM
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8. Generally speaking,
I exit the situation a quickly as possible, then go home and smack my head against the wall for a while.

Oh - fix it? Haven't the slightest idea...sowwy...
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TXlib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 08:43 PM
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10. Apologize, and/or laugh it off.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 08:49 PM
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11. acknowledge it, apologize and be done with it
it's really the only way
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OneBlueSky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-23-04 11:44 PM
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12. I just remember what my mama told me . . .
"Everybody's an asshole to someone." . . . then I have a good laugh and go to bed . . . :)
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-24-04 01:04 AM
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13. I get incredibly self-critical
Wouldn't recommend it though.
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