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Am I the only one?
I read, watch TV and movies, attend operas and plays, and work with a lot of college students, and I constantly wonder, WHERE are the 20 to 25 percent of the general population who don't drink alcohol? It often seems to me as if those demographics are completely bogus and I am in fact the only one.
When I was a kid I was subjected to all the same peer-pressure influences to drink that we all are. Inevitably, as an adolescent, I responded to that peer pressure by trying to drink. And yet, unlike my peers, I just could not stand the stuff. To me, it was vile, putrid and made me physically ill. I NEVER got anything positive out of it, only misery. I tried beer, wine, hard liquor and mixed drinks. I tried the "good" or expensive stuff as well as the "cheap" stuff, and I couldn't tell the difference. It was all equally foul and uniformly putrid to me.
Finally, when I was about 25, I came to my senses and realized, "Hey, I just can't stand this stuff. Just because everybody else seems to like it doesn't mean I have to." In almost 30 years since then, I have not touched a drop of alcohol, except for two times when I was with some friends over dinner who were drinking wine and curiosity impelled me to ask for about an ounce of it. Nothing had changed; the stuff was still vile and putrid to me and I gagged and choked on it.
I am posting this in an attempt to discover if there is ANYBODY out there in the whole wide world who is like me. Because in my 54 and one-half years on this planet, I have never seen any indication that there is.
Ron
P.S. -- Please don't call me a "tee-totaler." I have looked up the definition of this term in several dictionaries, and they all use words like "abstain" or "refrain" to define the term. This definition does not describe me. I do not "abstain" or "refrain" from alcohol in the same sense that I do not "abstain" or "refrain" from self-flagellation or self-immolation. That I never drink, flagellate myself or immolate myself is not because I am "abstaining" or "refraining" or resisting some inclination to do so, but because I have no desire or inclination to do so. So please call me a "non-drinker," not a "tee-totaler."
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