Van Helsing
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:09 PM
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Would it be wise to ask out a girl... |
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Edited on Sun Apr-25-04 09:19 PM by Van Helsing
I barely know through email?
Edit: I want to point out that summer vacation starts in two weeks...
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:10 PM
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Is there clearly a 'spark'?
And if so, is it a two way spark, or just one way?
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:13 PM
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I talked to her a little bit Thursday, and I felt something. I don't know if she did...but I guess it wouldn't hurt to try, would it?
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:16 PM
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11. Sure...but what's your gut instinct? |
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Gut instinct is usually right in these circumstances.
If anything you could always suggest the innocuous meet over coffee - pretty much the least threatening place you could ever take a date.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:16 PM
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:10 PM
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2. Have you seen what she looks like? |
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:12 PM
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yes, I do know what she looks like. She goes to my campus.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:14 PM
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you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:16 PM
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I just thought It'd be a little creepy. :shrug:
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:15 PM
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8. "Shes goes to my campus." |
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Then yes, you ask her out.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:13 PM
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6. Yeah, that's a reason to ask someone out... |
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"Does she have a nice ass too?"
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:15 PM
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that's why I asked the question. :evilgrin:
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:11 PM
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3. If she lives reasonably close, yes. |
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Otherwise, only if there is undoubtably a clear indication of mutual attraction.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:17 PM
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13. far better to risk the possibility of rejection. . . |
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than spend a life wondering what could have happened. As a woman I'll tell you that solicitations from a well penned e-mail can be equal to telephonic ones. Follow your heart. Best of luck.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:19 PM
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... you flash around a lot of cash, and jewelery. Woman can't resist it.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:20 PM
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Edited on Sun Apr-25-04 09:22 PM by Teddy_Salad
If she says "no".....so what? No big deal.
You never want to be guessing years down the line. I also once was shy to ask a girl out, had no idea what she thought of me but I was besotted with her.
I somehow got the courage up to ask her out and we've now been married for eight years.
Remember, if you don't ask.....you'll never know.
On edit: Oh, one more thing. Try to do it "face to face", not via email.
Much better that way.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:24 PM
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17. If summer vacation is 2 weeks away then go for it. |
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If she turns you down there isn't much time for it to be awkward before you don't have to see her for 3 months. By then all will be forgotten.
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:25 PM
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Thanks. I'll ask her out right now. Thanks all. :)
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:28 PM
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20. try in person if possible... |
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but if not, email will suffice. but still, email can be kinda impersonal, and if she doesnt check it all that often the wait could kill ya lol
-LK
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:32 PM
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22. I don't see her around that much. |
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:35 PM
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23. then just go for it over email. |
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Edited on Sun Apr-25-04 09:36 PM by LastKnight
hell, its just like passing the note middle-school style, except... its all electronic lol.
good luck
-LK
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Sun Apr-25-04 09:51 PM
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25. Ok. Did it. I emailed her. |
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I wish me luck. Thanks again all. :yourock: :hi:
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