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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 05:24 AM
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Need some good thoughts for my mom, please...
Edited on Mon Apr-26-04 05:31 AM by WillBowden
Mom goes into surgery in about an hour and a half (7:00 am). She's having stomach problems and they told her that if they don't do the surgery it's possible that the affected cells may become cancerous.

She's "OK" about the surgery. Everyone else is more nervous than she is (especially me). So if you've got a few good thoughts to spare I'd appreciate them...

(On edit: Spelling error)
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Bronco69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 05:30 AM
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1. I'll keep her in my thoughts.
Be sure to keep us posted.
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freetobegay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 05:31 AM
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2. I'll say a little prayer for her.
eom
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OneBlueSky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 05:56 AM
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3. ask and ye shall receive . . .
good thoughts and prayers coming your way, Will . . . hope everything turns out well . . . :hug:
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RebelOne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 06:10 AM
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4. Sending good vibes your mother's way.
I'm sure she will come through just fine.
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DeposeTheBoyKing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 07:04 AM
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5. I'll be thinking about her today
and praying everything turns out fine.
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Paradise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 07:08 AM
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6. Hey, DUers, Lets Keep This Going!
WillBowden, you're a good son. Our thoughts and prayers are with your mom and with you.
Please keep us posted today. :grouphug:
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Divernan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 07:27 AM
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7. Holding good thoughts for her.
I had really major abdominal surgery about ten years ago - surgeons were terrific - they saved my life. But have a family member with her in the hospital during recovery - and also at home with her, if they push her out of the hospital in a day or two. Hospitals are doing that now, and many patients are really too weak to take care of themselves - especially if they live alone or with someone too elderly or frail to provide much physical/strength-related support. Another thing is pain control. Rest is very important to healing, and you don't rest when you're in pain. The doctors often enter an order for pain relief "as necessary" and there are too few qualified hospital personnel, such as nurses(as opposed to orderlies/nurses aides), actually competent to evaluate such a need.

You know nurses are routinely forced to work double shifts and are stretched very thin from the large number of patients assigned to them. So it's very good to have a family member with the patient to raise a little hell when necessary. When my elderly Mother was hospitalized last summer, she fell IN THE HOSPITAL three times, because they didn't respond to her buzzer, and she tried to climb out of the hospital bed to get to the bathroom. And although by law, the hospital was supposed to enter the falls into her medical records, and tell me about it, they didn't. I learned about it from her roommate! I hired a private care attendant just to make sure she was timely fed, bathed, medicated and toileted! Too bad we have gotten to be like some third world country where family members sleep on the floor next to the hospital bed of the patient.

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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 07:32 AM
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8. Good Karma for your mum
Let us know

DDQM
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Rainbowreflect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 07:32 AM
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9. Good thoughts & prayers for both of you.
:grouphug:
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 08:00 AM
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10. ((((Will's Mom)))) ((((Will))))
Glad they seem to have caught it early.
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ewagner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 08:09 AM
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11. Lots of good thoughts
coming from here Will. Hope all goes well and the outcome is MOST happy! :hi:
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Bertha Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 08:10 AM
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12. we're with you & your mom, Will
:hug:
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 11:31 AM
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13. Thanks everyone...
I'll let you know how she's doing after she wakes up. :-)
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 11:35 AM
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14. A Little Late On This, Will, But I'm Wishing Well To You Family
The Professor
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 11:36 AM
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15. The "Hail Mary Patrol" will in out in force for your mom
I wish her a speedy recovery.
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Lars39 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 11:49 AM
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16. Good thoughts and hugs coming your way,WillBowden.....
:hug: for Will and his mom and family...
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 11:50 AM
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17. Hugs and prayers coming your way.
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 01:52 PM
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18. Please keep us informed on how she does , Will
Sending good thoughts and prayers her way.
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democratreformed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 01:53 PM
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19. Good thoughts headed your way
:grouphug:
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 01:54 PM
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20. Keeping the vibes up for mom
Hope all goes OK, Will
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 01:56 PM
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21. Sending good thoughts your way
Please let us know how your mother is doing after surgery. :hug:
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bif Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 02:07 PM
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22. Good vibes are on their way
n/t
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 02:35 PM
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23. I guess surgery's over, but...
~here are some healing cyber-vibes anyway~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Donkeyboy75 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 02:36 PM
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24. Sending good vibes her way.
Let us know how it works out!

:thumbsup:
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 02:38 PM
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25. Positive thoughts coming your way Will
for your Mom, you and your family. Keep us posted, please.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 03:15 PM
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26. I am thinking good thoughts for Mama WIllBowden
she is going to be fine! :D
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Westegg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 04:04 PM
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27. My VERY BEST thoughts for your mom...
Sounds like she's in good spirits and you KNOW how important that is for healing, right?

Take care.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-26-04 04:51 PM
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28. Done!
Please update. :hug:
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