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Guaranteed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 03:15 AM
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Poll question: DU Men: Have you ever experienced "pee shyness?"
Edited on Tue Apr-27-04 03:32 AM by BullGooseLoony
http://www.drweil.com/app/cda/drw_cda.html-command=TodayQA-pt=Question-questionId=3047

I had a bout of it once, at a Raider game. The weirdest thing is that I'd had six beers- I was plastered. But that bathroom was crowded like a pack of sardines, and when I stepped up to the trough I just could NOT go. I had to go bad, too, but my bladder was dead set on retaining that pee. It was not letting go.

What's even odder is that when I just heard about this phenomenon, on a little-known show called "Wanderlust" on Comedy Central, the show said that up to 14% of men have experienced this urinal anxiety, and they experience it in PARTICULAR at SPORTS events! So it just hit me really hard, with the experience that I had had.

So, has this ever happened to you?

On edit: And, if it has, was it at a sports event?
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 03:22 AM
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1. My best friend of 21 years - won't even pee next to ME in a stall
It don't get it, when we were kids we used to piss down the hill and watch the races.
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Gore1FL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 03:34 AM
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2. I heard a rather humorous albeit gross story about this...
This medical student cut ol' zeke off a corpse and pretended to have stage fright at a urinal. Yelling at it in disgust, he said, "I warned you" and then acted as if to yank it off his body and threw it in the urinal and left.

I don;t know if this is urban legend or not, but I imagine if true, it was quite a scene.

It likely gave the janitor nightmares as well.
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Guaranteed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 03:40 AM
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5. Hee hee
"Hey, buddy, I think you forgot this..."
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Champ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 03:35 AM
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3. All the freakin' time
I call it stage frieght. I thought this was common? I guess I have a problem. :D
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Guaranteed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 03:39 AM
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4. I think it's more common than the studies suggest.
We're trained not to do our bathroom stuff around other people. It makes it real difficult when we have to.
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caledesi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 04:07 AM
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6. It's called "bashful kidneys." nt
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 07:17 AM
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13. Or "bashful bladder".
It's common.
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Seldona Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 04:31 AM
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7. Not a bit.
I used to have a girlfriend who would't go if anyone was in the house!

Used to torture that poor girl. Playfuly anyway. :evilgrin:
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unblock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 04:55 AM
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8. yup. most of the migraine prophylaxis meds i've tried do that to me
Edited on Tue Apr-27-04 04:55 AM by unblock
"difficulty starting urine stream" seams to be my body's favorite side effect. though maybe that doesn't exactly count, as it's difficult even if no one else is around. on the other hand, it is easier when the guy next to me has left....
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Something Blue Donating Member (96 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 05:15 AM
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9. Yes, and it drives me crazy
Stand there and think of waterfalls...doesn't work.

Wait for the next toilet to flush...helps. So does somebody washing their hands for a long time.

What really pisses me off (pun very much intended) is when everybody exits the bathroom, ya finally loosen up and let go, the friggin' door opens and someone comes in, AND THE STREAM STOPS. Boom. That HURTS.

I call it Fuel line freeze up, or vapor lock. :)
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Guaranteed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 05:16 AM
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10. LOL nt
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Exultant Democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 06:41 AM
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11. Oh yeah I have a real shy bladder
In general I have to wait for a stall to open up, I know it is bad form, but you do what you must.
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 07:16 AM
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12. I had it once...
...At the doctors office for a physical. I went to the john with my cup, couldn't go and walked out with the cup. I used it for a shotglass for a while, I think I still have it somewhere.
But it happens now and again and it sucks when you really have to go.
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tsakshaug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 07:24 AM
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14. I P
any time, any where.

When I worked in a hospital recovery room, there were several males with this problem-even under sedation
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jmowreader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 07:25 AM
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15. A lot of guys have that
Especially when they're taking an Army piss test; the observer has to watch the urine entering the cup. (Being an observer is so much fun.)
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 07:27 AM
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16. I've heard it called "stage fright"
Haven't had it myself, but I would point out that when people are rushing you the normal delay between positioning and urination may seem longer than usual just because you are trying to go fast.
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-27-04 07:46 AM
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17. Even Pansy Division made a song about it!
Called "Pee Shy".

Yes, I have that problem. I'm usually OK when I go to the stall but certainly can't go when there's someone standing next to me at a urinal.
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