Good first date questions...

[Guy_Montag]

Can I have all your suggestions for questions & topics to cover on a first date.


Thank you

[tsakshaug]

1. I will try to remember some of mine

Try to keep as open ended as possible
-How do you like to spend your free time
-When buying something what critera do you use, research? cost? style? brand?
-What types of movies do you enjoy?


I will remember some later

[cleofus1]

2. so....

What colour panties (knickers) are you wearing?

[tsakshaug]

3. Children

Always a coversation piece, if either of you have any, or plans for having them.

If no kids, what situation would you want to be in before children. (this may be too much for a first date)

IF kids- have them tell you about them. You can learn a fair amount about a person from this answer

[Guy_Montag]

5. I think that might be a little much to start with...

I don't think she has any kids, & I don't want to bring it up in case
a) she has & thinks I'll be scared off
b) she thinks I'm getting too forward

[smada]

4. Any chance

I'll be gettin some tonight?

The answer usually determines how much I'll spend for dinner.

j/k

[Guy_Montag]

7. We're just going for lunch...

but I like it.

[tsakshaug]

6. Some time it needs to come up

It took a few dates for this one-
Sexual history-STDs-Birth control-Last HIV test...willing to have an HIV test?

[Guy_Montag]

8. Yeah well I need to go to the doctor for a jab anyway...

I thought I might get a full screening, while I'm there. Just need to make sure it doesn't go on my record.

[tsakshaug]

9. Keep it light

Some of my questions have been for later dates.

Sports? any interest? if so what? No interest from her-drop it quickly.

Family questions-Parents, siblings.

Personal history-where did you grow up, school history-level of education was important for me.

[no_hypocrisy]

10. So, who are you voting for in November?

[Guy_Montag]

12. Wrong country...

Dammit, I think we deserve a vote the way Tony behaves.

[no_hypocrisy]

16. You do deserve an honorary vote. OK, how about versatility? You

talk about whatever inspires you for the moment and you don't rely exclusively on a planned series of topics? Respond to what your date says that reflects that you were listening carefully and add your opinions to that? And don't forget humor. That's a big factor towards a second date. Have fun no matter what.

[Guy_Montag]

17. I expect to chat about whatever comes up...

it's just back up to avoid...



































long silences.

[fudge stripe cookays]

11. Keep it light...

Most of these should give you more than a yes or no answer so you can keep the conversation going. :-)

a) Favorite color and why?
b) Funniest thing that's ever happened to you?
c) Favorite person and why?
d) What makes you happy?
e) What makes you sad?
f) Favorite films and why?
g) Favorite ice cream flavor?
h) What's the nicest thing anyone has ever said to you?
i) Favorite place in ?
j) Where do you like to go on vacation?
k) What do you do? What would be your ideal job if you could do anything?
l) Favorite place you've ever traveled and why?
m) Chocolate or vanilla?

Okay. Now I'm just getting silly. Good luck! Hope you hit it off!

When ordering lunch, here's a good tip. If all else fails, go for the Club Sandwich.

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[Guy_Montag]

13. Yeah I've been try to work out what to eat...

Can't be anything that spills easily... Nothing too weird...

[Loonman]

14. What are the primary dualities between the 5 string theories?

Do you agree with brane theory and one of it's speculated roles in the Big Bang?

Is Freud full of shit or what?

Do you engage in heavy petting on the first date?

[Guy_Montag]

15. I think that's a little bit heavy for the first date...

what is heavy petting? Where does light petting cross into heavy petting & that become foreplay?

[LynneSin]

18. Will that cold sore clear up soon?

Ok, I'm bad :P

Just ask about her interests - music, movies, politics, etc!

You'll be fine!