Beaker
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:42 PM
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Poll question: who here has done, contemplated, or discussed doing what Jack Ryan did? |
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Republicans apparently do it(or at least attempt to do it)...what about those red-blooded Democrats? have any of our fellow DU'ers and their signifigant others followed thru with their fantasies?
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:43 PM
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1. I take it you mean consentually... |
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It was alleged that Jack Ryan dragged his wife into the clubs and tried to coerce her into participating.
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:45 PM
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2. That's kind of strange |
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Edited on Thu Jun-24-04 06:50 PM by Fenris
I mean, if you're into kink like that, you're entitled. But what he did is allegedly nonconsensual, so it's very, very wrong.
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:46 PM
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3. I've done a couple before |
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but not at a club.
Hell, I was in commercial porn once. (softcore, though)
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:47 PM
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4. Are you trying to whitewash Ryan? |
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Because that's what this looks like.
No sale.
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Beaker
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:57 PM
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i don't understand what you mean by that...? my wife and I have been to a few clubs, and I was wondering how many others might have done the same...
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:48 PM
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5. That's absolutely disgusting. |
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I'd never run for office as a republican.
Yuck. I need a shower.
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:49 PM
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6. I get plenty of hassles from one. |
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No way am I letting in reinforcements. :thumbsdown:
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:49 PM
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7. It isn't about swinging...it's about one partner setting the other partner |
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up to do things they don't want to do.
If both parties to a couple are in a space of permissiveness with one another and go for it, then fine...if a man sets his partner up to do something she doesn't wish to do and basically forces her into it...then he's not treating her as his partner or his equal...he's treating her as though she is a tramp and a cheap piece of shit...and yeah...I've been on that end of it...and not felt good about it.
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Beaker
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:59 PM
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11. no...this poll is about swinging. |
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if you want to start one about one partner setting the other partner...blah, blah, blah, -feel free.
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nothingshocksmeanymore
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Thu Jun-24-04 09:16 PM
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12. NO you said would I do what Ryan did and I answered the question |
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Next time ask if I would swing and I'll answer that question...and the answer is NO....I grew up a few years back...and in my experience most people into those kind of sex trips have major esteem issues.....fantasies aside...
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:49 PM
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8. It's not what they did... |
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it's how he treated his wife (badly).
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Thu Jun-24-04 06:54 PM
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9. Crossed my mind in fantasy, I'd never do it actually, would never ask |
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So I guess my answer is "other".
Though I see nothing wrong with doing it, and it's fun to fantasize about, it just ain't me.
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Thu Jun-24-04 09:26 PM
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13. Jack Ryan apparently thinks the people around him are his property |
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to do with as he wishes. :puke: That's not sexy in any dimension that I know of.
Now that I got that out of my system, it might be titillating to read about once in a while, but I'm not inclided to do it. Sex is too emotional for me.
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Thu Jun-24-04 09:40 PM
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14. If I had his wife I would be up for anything. |
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