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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:12 PM Original message |
I'm concerned about my friend and I think I need some advice... |
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salinen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
1. Buy some condoms and give |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 12:21 AM Response to Reply #1 |
10. (Original poster here)Should I give them to her and say... |
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Kadie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
2. Birth control isn't the only reason to use a condom |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
3. Why is she dating a guy who is so much older than she is? |
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susanna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Dang, yardwork... |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:36 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Do you really want me to get into it? |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:41 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. It doesn't matter. |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 12:26 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. (Original Poster) Why do you think she has low self-image and... |
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pagerbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 02:42 AM Response to Reply #11 |
17. I quote: "It's a risk worth taking" |
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Rowdyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:42 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. Please listen to Yardwork |
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amazona (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 09:16 AM Response to Reply #3 |
30. it isn't a bit unusual |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 04:46 PM Response to Reply #30 |
36. (Original Poster) So we both agree that a mature 18 year old woman... |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 05:25 PM Response to Reply #36 |
41. especially if she wants to become part of the medical profession! |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-20-04 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
6. Well, you can clam up and watch your friends life go down the tubes. |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 01:06 AM Response to Reply #6 |
14. (OPH)... First, I need to convince her to protect herself and |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 12:06 AM Response to Original message |
9. She should use condomns |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 12:50 AM Response to Original message |
12. You need to convince her to get an STD test |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 01:04 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. (Original Poste) Well, I'm a guy... so I feel kind of awkward about... |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 02:38 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. OK. You're a guy. You care about her. |
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truthspeaker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 09:10 AM Response to Reply #13 |
29. "Heat of the moment" is NO excuse for not wearing a condom |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 04:49 PM Response to Reply #29 |
37. (OPH)... I'm not try to excuse what they did... |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 03:36 PM Response to Reply #13 |
31. If the unprotected sex has happened four times |
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shimmergal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 02:25 AM Response to Original message |
15. All the above advice is good, but only if she's willing to take it. |
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DemBones DemBones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 03:15 AM Response to Original message |
18. The trouble with teenagers is that they |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 04:55 PM Response to Reply #18 |
39. (Original Poster) Pardon my french... but what the fuck makes you think... |
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izzie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 03:57 AM Response to Original message |
19. Why is a 27 year old having sex with an 18 year old kid? |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 07:00 AM Response to Reply #19 |
27. Well, 18 is grown up. The real question is... Why unprotected sex? |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 04:50 AM Response to Original message |
20. reminds me of an old joke |
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Pert_UK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 05:06 AM Response to Original message |
21. Your friend is 18, wants to be a doctor, but is having unprotected sex... |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 05:43 AM Response to Original message |
22. Tell Her To Dump Him NOW |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 04:37 PM Response to Reply #22 |
35. isn't the term 'babyraper' a bit harsh? |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-04 02:30 AM Response to Reply #35 |
43. Nope |
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Gryffindor_Bookworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 04:50 PM Response to Reply #22 |
38. My experience parallels yours...you are exactly right. eom |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 05:54 AM Response to Original message |
23. self-denigrating behavior |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 06:35 AM Response to Original message |
24. Ask her if she really understands what she's saying when she says |
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onebigbadwulf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 06:53 AM Response to Original message |
25. You put her on the pill and pay for the prescriptions |
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battleknight24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 05:09 PM Response to Reply #25 |
40. How much does it cost... I don't have tons of money... |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
26. Oh man... I have a friend who got HIV... |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 07:36 AM Response to Original message |
28. I have hardly been around, but this post compelled me to respond. |
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MsUSA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 04:18 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. *hugs* SarahBelle |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 08:05 PM Response to Reply #33 |
42. Thanks, but... |
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doctorbombeigh (233 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
32. If she's not using protection, she's trying to get pregnant. n/t |
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slutticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-04 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
34. "Pulling out" does not... |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-04 04:46 AM Response to Original message |
44. Tell her the truth about her risk of intended pregnancy |
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